What works and do I want to focus on:
For my consiousness work:
Word of mouth: this is in every thing that I offer.
Personal contact: also in everything I offer
Litle groups or couples or individuals: bigger groups make me too tired
Mentorship in line with being an elder. This is crucial
Asking for what I need. That means I want to be asked. Let the people know that… Read More
What I have got out of this week is that I gave myself a far better treatment then I have done for quite some time. And I took some important steps to experience less pressure in my financial obligations
I learnend to be more selective in how to become visible
My celebration is gratetude
I think that I stopped most iactivities or am in the process of stopping.
The middle hard one is to stop with my VOF.
The most hard one is to stop with my Leergang.
When I read the comments in the WOMB they make me wonder about activities I wanted to start because you decided to stop it.
Like posts on LinkedIn, Facebook, Blogs.
What I get out of it is that I need to… Read More
Easy to eliminate directly:
I have a few longterm subscriptions that I can eliminate directly
I am going through all my insurances and see how and what I need
I stop waiting for too difficult or complex almost done assignments and putting energy in them
What touches and intrigates me most is the mail from Nisandeh today in wich he anounces a very big Stop. What is your vision today Nisandeh? Our path’s will not cross again you write. What are you heading for? This is the second big farewell as far as I know. What is happening? I wish you many many good things!
Lately I am giving myself a bit more allowance in Stopping mu… Read More
In replay to Marcel Dassen
Alss ik moet kiezen uit deze twee wordt het met kop en schouders de leermeester.
Ontwikkelaar is naar mijn idee teveel coach taal.
What I need to Stop
I must stop using too much jargon language. Actualy there are a few keywords that I must use more often
I must stop collaboration with people who want but can not deliver
I want to stop trying too hard the Leergang.
I need to Stop my idea that I am old and so litle time left for more succes.
I need to Stop single tracked actions. See the multi use… Read More
Reading your list I wonder what works for you?
You wrote down many strategies I want to implement more. Have you got an idea why they are all not working for you? Somehow I think that will be also the outcome I will get
Like something is drastically changing in the “field”. Can you recognize this?
The contact and potential of my network and their networks
Getting more serious about potentional working together idea’s that are floating in the air
Writing blogs and articles
Finding platform that are in line
What worked best?
Word of mouth. I am looking for strategies to use more the potential of my network.
People who saw me in action. I need platforms to become more visable
Walking my talk in my life and making that visable and something that clients can experience. For instance in my place in Spain.
I need to find more ways here
It is as if I could have written a big part of your comment Marcel. Sounds familiar to my experiences
Missing strategic actions in my business where:
Not follow through. Going half way and not using the full potentional from almost all I ever developed in my business: like new products like developing new trainings
Starting posting on FB but stopped it.
Linkedin even worse.
Making websites but not follow through by making it visable on Google
I lean in in all those ye… Read More
My 4 most important values are:
Inner growth, fluency and flexibility, practicality, quality
My business vision is:
I want to bring an awakening in consiousness to people who long for healing and a profound unlocking of their potentional. For themselves, for those around them and for the generations to come.
What did I get from this week?
Best thing is that happened this week is that I see more clear the possibilities to integrate the programm in my life and in the goal: in my business without loosing what is important for me, but have a kind of win win working
Visability, making use of my network and modern media has gotten my focus. I started it and it needs follow thro… Read More
In replay to Gerdy Heek
This sounds big to me too.
You give me hope
I am not operating strategic enough
I fill holes with holes, faling behind
I am bad in time management
I have hardly anything automatic
I struggle with getting the right support on a regular base.
I need to become more visible: both in my psychological and spiritual work and in exploring my place in Spain
I need to use social media
I have a network that… Read More
I am quite persistent in where I put my focus on. I can endure and take effort.
I know about quality
When I wrote in the WOMB about what makes me an expert I had a whole list. I am an expert and an elder.
In replay to Nisandeh Neta
Thanks for your reaction Nisandeh
Maybe you are right: a lot of work involved or better to sell.the place.
I take an other point of view though: I am not a seperate cell in the field of conciousness. Where I am toughed by or believe in is not only about me.
There are many out there who share my Ideal or dream or knowing. And needs.. I only need to find ways and platf… Read More
I like your text Marcel. I think I let myself getting inspired by it. Also I can resonate with your question. I follow you in the WOMB and feel kinship in what we bring into the world. I would like to get into contact with you. Would that be OK for you?
What would Nisandeh do? We built up a beautiful place in Spain on the majic and unknown region the Altiplano of Granada.
Nature, silence, sustainability, harmony and basics are keywords here. It is an mansion with land and caves and space. We have 3 big fully equipped apartments and 6 individual dwellings and 3 clamping tents. Much more potentiaal to creat… Read More
Day two: what was good in my actions and in the programm
The structure in the programm was good for me: The every day assignment to answer questions in the WOMB . The programm became a part of my life, my thinking. I noticed a mindshift. Many topics changed from “oh no, not for me” into something that is my reach. (The implementation of them is another and more difficult… Read More
Day one: what could have been better in my actions and in the programm;
Mostly the 5 to 10 minutes schedule each day was a hard one for me. What can I do in 10 minutes? I needed them already to reread or read posts from other WOMB members. I built up a habit of thinking of working on my business though because of these daily questions. Mostly in extra time I created f… Read More
I take you to a deeper understanding of your inner patterns and worlds and from the those around you. I bring you more inner freedom so you can live your potentional, for yourself, for your loved ones in your work and for the world around you
I bring you new eyes to see yourself in connection with that wich is bigger then you.
I can open you up to psychological… Read More
I keep thinking and communicating in long texts and many different types of clients. I tried to resrict myself to couple work but that just does not fit. It is like pourung myself into a too little cup. What can I do to positioning myself in one or maybe two scentenses?
Why am I qualified?
De Red line in my life has been around raising conciousness and restoring my inner and outer balance along basic, natural and energetic principles. I deepenend myself in my life and profession. I am a wounded healer who has spent her life on what is going on and how can I put my experiences at use for others who need to become more whole. I had big te… Read More
I believe that we live in a time of transformation where a rise in
consiousness is possible. I believe that we can own this possibility for transformation and not fall victime of it. I believe that we have to find sustainability in ourselves by living out of values instead of survival mechanisms that covers them. I believe that we need to restore a new balance and i… Read More
How to get more clear in positioning myself is exactly my big issue. I toughed lives people say. Themselves, their families, their work. What is my blind spot in getting more clear in positioning myself? I really wonder.
Well, let’s go on:
Who do I want to help?
I want to help people who have an urge to change the quality in how they are living their li… Read More
What did I get out of this week’s Programm:
I have to focus even more.
What did I learn from the process:
That evaluation needs rest. A fall time energy.
I am in full blast growing Summertime now.
Many building projects came to fulfilment. Or almost. Next week even more acomplishment
I feel very very proud and happy with what we managed until now. And with all the s… Read More
My biggest wall is that I am too busy in my ongoing work.
Getting too tired
My sense of failing as a mother and grandmother
Too much duty oriented instead of atunement oriented
The biggest goals I have for the coming 100 days:
Get my mansion in Spain structured and known as a selfreliant and ritualic Retreat Place in the magical nature at the Altiplano of Granada for my own clients and for other trainers and their clients
Get my Leergang Practical Spirituality for spiritual leadership known and structured.
Write an article or book
Ma… Read More
Day one week hitting the wall
The process with the generator itself is very valuable. I apply it in more earea’s in my work now. Also in my business
I have been working towards these times in my work and on my place for some years now. This month is the peak in realisation. And I see that behind this wave there is a silence, a waiting. In there I need and apply many thin… Read More
Voice Dialogue and the Psychology of Selves: vondiousness model
Dynamic of energetica inside you and outside you
Working with polaritys
Purpose, Qualitys on different levels, surviving mechanisms, vulnerability, Soullevel, what does that mean? Personal development in life and work
Supervision, Relationship development, Communication and cont… Read More
What I have got out of this week assignment is that my mindset is changing
Because of this longterm proces I am changing my language and way of perceving and thinking. Not only in the erea of working on my business, also in my business.
I have trouble implementing everything. This period is my peak time in my work. I am traveling at this moment and get my group in Spain… Read More
Why would I want to publish a video?
How I sound and look is another more direct way in contacting with my clients
Contact is essential in what I offer
My clients can sense my presence
I can transmit more and more clearly in speach
then in writing
This medium is quick and practical
My clients can be present from a deeper level
I can come from different levels
It… Read More
Thank you so much for these 4 inspiring and clearifying hours. I still feel the exitement of new possibilities.
Insights: I VIP some of my clients half way but do not mention that and certainly do not charge them for that.
I have an idea now how and what to do
I choose babyboomers as my public. Since i am am one.. Until now I wanted to bring my seniority to younger gene… Read More
Hello all, Hello Nisandeh and Vered
This week’s topic I followed not by comments.
It was just too much forcing myself in this topic at this moment of time. Instead I plondered around the idea of writing a book a lot because of the topic. I am going to do it in wintertime or early spring. Along the way I keep asking myself the questions from this week.
This week I fin… Read More
This week I spent overdue time implementing:
Contacted my ideal clients, finished my website, “promoting” my Leergang, digesting disapointments business wise, a whole list more to add.
In the meanwhile plondering around the idea of writing a book.
That I want to do. In wintertime or ea… Read More
What did I get out of this week assignment?
That I am an expert and still not know how to name my expertise..i see the importance to be able to do that. It is starting to get ckear
I learnend that there is a difference between a calling and an expertise. That an expertise does not need to be the complete content of my developed qualities
I celebrate with enjoying the ra… Read More
Finish my Website
Get it online
Sent it into the word: LinkedIn, Facebook, mailinglist
Ask my Vips to brainstorm with me on the acquisition of the Leergang
Handle my dissapoinents the consequente of eralyer decisions
Get more clear in buisiness and calling
The most important is to handle my disapointments at this moment of time.
Thank you Nisandeh
I have to reconsider.
I need time for that
Can you please give me advice and direction? I come up with a whole list of aspects where I am expert in. In fact I could even prolonge that list. How do I destilate in that one sentence the essence of all that? Or that one keyeword?
I am like a snake biting my own tail in this. Cirkeling around.
In replay to Lucie Klaassen
I like very much your list. Especialy Naturalness
speaks to me as a possible keyeord.
In what am I an expert?
1: I give people direction and hope. In that sense I am introducing virgens into an other realm of living.
2: I am expert in combining modern Psychology and Old Knowledge from ancient traditions
3: I know about energetics In and in between people
4: I have a deep developed sense for quality and animation.
5: I know about transformation processe… Read More
Why become an expert?
1: I do not become an expert, I AM one
2: When I can clearly decide to become an expert I make a stand in myself.
3: I make a stand in myself and thus in the world
4: I always wanted to be a generalist. I often think that experts are closed off people that Know and are being right I am starting to change that mindset
5: into why not being an expe… Read More
Friday. Week 9 WOW Factor
A WOW factor van be something like a cliffhanger.Something that sticks in the memory. That can be simpel and does not need to be “,logiccal”. It can have an aspect of respect, celebration and fun.
And what I learnend from my buddy: if an Ideal cliënt does not meet up with what you need them to be or do, then it is not an Read More
Thursday week 9
My biggest isights from the hotseat session are:
Deliver value and be clear about that.
The big difference between mentoring and coaching. I am a mentor
Keep it simpel: in simplicity is big mastery. Once you found a good working lay-out for what you offer stick to that. On that basic structure you can built more flesh.
Outsource what is not your area o… Read More
WOW your clients Teusday
I tent to overdeliver when people come to Spain. Many litle extra’s for their stay in one of our appartments.
I underdeliver in the gasps between the blocks of my Leergang. I have got many ideas to do that differently next time thanks to this programm. It is my most dear activity. So I can do do much more to celebrate that and to … Read More
WOW my clients. Make things raster for Them
Make my agenda more transparant
Sent reminders of apointmants
Sent a draft what we agreed on
Sent a awareness in audio or record it when we had a session.
On their phone
Ask them questions about implementation in the in between times
Acknowledge that they need a backup system from people when they are gone from … Read More
I combine Day 1 and Day 2
Before I want to vfnd out what my clients would need, I want to be more clear why I want to know that.
I realise that anything that I ask says as much about me as about them when the answer me. The questions I have come from wanting to built a bridge and a more adequate form and follow up
So before I am going to ask questions I need… Read More
Friday week 6
I am more clear about my concept around ideal clients. I see ways to sharpen my thoughts more.
I put it into action.
Ideal is not a fixed state: clients can hecome more Ideal or less Ideal… Read More
Thursday week 6
One of the biggest realisations these days are that I have and had ideal clients.
I did not celebrate them or myself with
their presence enough. Being on guard for transference process… Read More
Teusday week 6. Who is my Ideal cliënt:
My Ideal cliënt has:
Ability to embrace their process
Ability to implement their process in daily life
Is happy with what I can offer
Is open for a click and comprehends the value of that
Can pay me with money or otherwise
Invités me to their network
Invités me to do mentoring on the spot
Has … Read More
Why would I want to work with ideal clients?
My ideal clients inspire me
My ideal clients bring the best out of me and me out of them
My Read More
Most of all I celebrate the steps I take with my website. The process helps me to embrace my excellence and qualities and get clear about them. And this sense of freedom.
Thanks to the program and most of all to my buddy Arjen.
How I celebrate that? By working on it more and more.
In replay to Arjen Broeze
Good to read that you give such an importancy to your Stop list Bravo.
Wednesday week 5
Today I spent my block working on my business/creating time on speaking with my fellow VOF members on the strategy and planning of getting people involved in the new Leergang. I also shared about my participation and commitment in this programm with you and what that brought me so far. Only by doing that a stream of creativity and ideas came up. Followed … Read More
Day two week 5
This day I spent on getting home again. Manny hours of travelling. Although there is plenty of time because of cancellations and waiting hours, It is hard to focus. So I spent my timeblock with reading comments of others. And have first impressions of my new website.
Hi, I am back again.
The challenge for me is to not creating time by rising extra early or using my in-between breaks
I want to systemize this 15-minute time in my days. In the Summer best is from eleven to eleven fifteen. After Summer I may need to reschedule. I give myself this freedom.
The 3 hours I want to give to exploration. This is extra time on my business besi… Read More
Yesterday I missed out because of travelling.
The topic automate is not naturaly present in my life and business. I can see the benefit of it though thanks to the flow of comments of you all.
I take a few beginners steps: Optimize what I have. We Fact and Basecone.
The most important thing is still to make a new website in wich I want to include some automate … Read More
Day three in second week:
What automatation tools?
I wonder if I am already lost in the forest of this programm or what? Do I drop out here in this second week already?
Same time: maybe this is just the big blind spot in my business.
I can take a few beginners babysteps.
First start again is a good functioning website and from there automatic posts on Whatsapp and… Read More
Day two: What to automate
First of all I want to optimize the automatic tools that I already have: WeFact and Basecone
I want a system that sents out whatsapp messages with a connection to my new to built website for more info and a new to create system of blogs.
A system that builds up my mailinglist with follow through.
I am considering to do the same with Linkedin… Read More
Week 3 monday
1 Because Nisandeh says it is beneficial
2 Because my Buddies say it is beneficial
3 I read comments in the WOMB that say it is beneficial
4 Colleages say the same
5 Let’s listen carefully to all of them
6 It might be the step off my plattform
7 It could save time
8 it could generatie much more business
9 I can work much more for m… Read More
Thank you for your reaction Marcel. Thank you for making this bridge. I follow your comments now and have seen your website. Interesting!
What did I get out of this week assignment?
I have got a deeper commitment to my own business. And lots of inspiration.
I got a deepening sense of how fundamentally I am affected by the catholic mindset, that talents are a gift and those should be used for others.
Being a woman born in the 50ths implemented an off sense about how I should be in service. During the… Read More
Day 4 second week
How to delagate:
1) Best seems that I talk more with people that I am already connected with. I took many initiatives that can have a follow through. Being more a pioneer I forget often to earn. In my buiseness and also in my garden by the way. I just let the harvest rot away too many times.
2) The people who are in my V.O.F. I need to take them more… Read More
I missed day three: Who to delagate to
1) I can delagate to my webside builder when I have a consistant list of what I need him to do on my website. If he can not do that or is not willing I must find another website builder
2) I can delagate the perfect englisch translations to Anna. I know what I can do to give her for that
3) I can delagate the part of the contant of… Read More
Second day, second week
What to delegate
) I want to delegate as much as possible financiel matters like: taxes, Spanish/Dutch system
2) I want a system that warns me to be in time with matters like that
3) I want someone who helps me out with my website.
4) I want someone who helps me out with Linked In
5) I need someone to help me out with computers, telephones e… Read More
One and one is three
One of my mothe´rs lifelessons was that if you want to delegate and have somebody working for you, you must always be at least one step ahead and you need to mentor the process. I still wonder about her lesson. My husband has a totally different style of delegating. He departs fom a trust in what people can accomplish. All in all he is so much more r… Read More
What did get out of this first week ´s assignement?
Most important is to be part of this group learning. And in it take my own responseabilities.
I got glimpses of the potentional and beauty of this programm. As far as I know now it is very smart in how it is constructed, based on a long time experience. This gives an important boost to my confidence.
And I can see… Read More
My biggest strugle is computer, Social media, website etc
1: Today a Young girl died under a tractor.. We mourn her and her family.
And I do my creatieve mind exrecise. Following and in the waters of LIFE
2: I implemented more then one suggestion
3: Now I want to move on to more uplifting parts of my business. And I see it is all connected. So follow through… Read More
My biggest strugle is my clumsyness with computers, Social media, website etc
1: now I realize how dreadfull this topic is for me. A kind of Dyscalcully
2: Do not victimize yourself, go beyond that.
3. Beyond that is a field of possibilities
4. Reach out in what you need
5: Get ideas from other people
6: There is no need to know it all by yourself
7: Open… Read More
My biggest strugle is my clumsyness with computers, social media, website etc.
It costs me tons of time and frustration and it is an obstacle in being visable, in my administration work snd in my money flow.
What I realized yesterday is that I fill one
hole with another. That becomes more of a structural problem.
My thinking suggests:
1: start with taking better ca… Read More
My biggest strugle and this moment is my clumsyness with computers and social media etc.
1 Hire somebody to do this for you
2 Take a personal teacher to get you updated
3 Make a study online
4: Become member of a senior help group
5: Minimize all that seemingly ¨normal¨use of computers
6: Ask someone to look with teamvieuw to help you out
7: Take no… Read More
1: I am an amazing person
2: Money thinker
3: Expert in modern transformational psychology combinend wit Ancient Natural Knowing
4: Personal contact. Guidance
5: Clear focus
6: Fullfilment for everybody involved
7: Too much effort with seemingly no output
8: Being one of the nestors in The Psychology of Selves and Voice Dialogue since the 80th´s. I am proud that… Read More
My expert position
How to work smarter not harder
Focus on my ideal clients
1: Where am I now and where I want to be in the futures
I spent a lot of time n developing. Myself, my work, my cliënts, my network, my trainingsprogramms, my Leergang, my litle business, my website, my word in wich I can express where I am and what I want to transmit, my place in the Altiplano of Granada of Spain, my relationshios, my everything. Deelneming my understa… Read More
My big vision is to involve people (and myself ) in practical spirituality.
People who are sensitieve to the caling to live more their natural nature. Who want to combine modern psychology with the the old knowledge from nature people. Most of the time this are people who are in a shift in their lives. They have done quite a bit of inner work so they are able to hold… Read More