Grow Your Expert Position

Congratulations!

You have completed the second block of the Working ON My Business program – YOUR IDEAL CLIENTS…

I hope you already noticed how your thinking and working have improved. Now it’s time to use the mindset and strategies you learned in the last few weeks to start working on the next block of the program…

Your Expert Position – Part 1

To get you started with the process, please watch this Business University lesson: WHY Becoming an Expert:

Let’s start with your MINDSET…

WHY Becoming and Expert?
In the video above I gave you MY top reasons why you should become an expert, and more than that – I shared with you how it’s connected with the last block of the program – working with Ideal Clients…

It doesn’t matter what products or services you offer, your prospects have lots of different options to choose from. 

Being able to differentiate yourself from your competitors, and position yourself as an expert in your marketplace is crucial to your success.

When you have authority, people will pay attention. When you are perceived as an expert in your industry, people will naturally want to work with you. They will seek you out. They will pay you more. And they will refer to you more.

Take some time to think, IF becoming a known expert (or THE expert) in your marketplace is a good strategy for you and for your business, and if yes – become very clear on the WHY… the WHAT, and… the HOW…

And if you decide to go for it, then…

Set your GOAL for this week…

Here’s a great goal for you:

I am going to become a known expert in my marketplace.

OR…

I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace.

How’s that for a 5-day challenge?

Choose the STRATEGY you will use…

If you have never clearly AND explicitly defined and communicated your Expert Position Strategy, here is the 5-step process you should follow:

  1. Find your compelling WHY
    Why is it important for YOU to become a known authority/expert in your field/marketplace?
    Some ideas are in the video, but make your own list;

  2. Define WHAT do you want to become an expert in
    Remember the points I shared during the last Hot Seat session (serving people for decades vs/ fads, don’t build an expertise that will shoot you in the leg, serve the SAME clients for 10 years or more, the difference between celebrity business and a scalable expert business…);

  3. Commit to become a/the known expert in your field
    Becoming known as an expert is not the same as being an expert… You might be already an expert in your field – but to be KNOWN as one – takes time, effort, and other resources.
    Make sure you’re willing to commit to this process.

  4. Clarify/define/set your goals
    What would be your goal(s) that will represent for you becoming a/the known expert in your field (being invited to give lectures in professional conferences, publishing a bestselling book, winning a prize…)

  5. Design a plan to grow your expert position
    What will YOU do to achieve the goal(s) you’ve set for yourself in the previous step. 

And again, we’re going to use… the Idea Generator

Remember – your brain is an answering machine… so each day of the week, we’ll give it another question (see the Implementation part below).

PLAN your actions in your agenda…

Your next step is to physically plan this process in your agenda.

Plan to invest 10-15 minutes EVERY DAY in the coming 5 days to follow the process above.

AND… You will need to reserve 2-3 hours to actually setup your plan to grow your expert position.

Now it’s time to IMPLEMENT…

Take 10 minutes, right now, and…

  • Day 1 – come up with at least 10 answers for why do you want to become a/the known expert in your field and make a decision IF becoming that expert is what you want to go for;

  • Day 2 – come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHAT you want to be known for as an expert and choose the one or two that are most important for you;

  • Day 3 – come up with a specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
    E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skills practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen…;

  • Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;

  • Day 5 – come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions;

In your 2-3-hour Implementation Session – put it all together – design a clear, doable plan with WHO does WHAT, WHEN in order to achieve the goal(s) you wrote on Day 4.

Each day share with us in the comment box your ideas, actions and commitment.

My commitment to you…

  • I’m looking forward to read your process and ideas below;

  • I will be there for you on Wednesday to support you with any question, challenge or setback you encounter;

  • I’m looking forward to celebrate your progress and results on Friday (I’m curious to hear the goal(s) and plan you’ll come up with).

Live fully, stay awesome,

Nisandeh

  1. >> I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace <<
    Day 5 – THIS IS HOW I INTEND TO ACHIEVE MY GOALS FROM YESTERDAY

    Due to a number of events over the last 3 weeks I have been inactive in contributing actively but not mentally. Thanks to very valuable sessions with my buddies many choices have been made. Where possible implementation has started. Where implementation is pending third party decision, actions have been set out.
    TWO important things that stands out is: SIMPLICITY AND FOCUS! and that goes for all areas in my life. Without simplicity focus gets challenged if not impossible.

    This means that in order to realize my new business and childhood contribution wish, I need to give this the priority it deserves. That means making choices to let other things go.

    HAPPY HOMES
    1) Write a book on HappyHomes by June 2023.
    - Write the book I would love to read myself using the plan of approach as a guideline for the content.
    - With my new insights having paused the process for 3 weeks, I will aim at a completion date in April 2023.
    2) Book is to be publised around Christmas 2023
    - I will reach out to my network informing on how to get my book published.
    - I will deliberately not ask Nisandeh as I believe this to be a NON Question. Meaning, finding the right publisher is something I can either look up in Google or ask my network.
    3) Create awareness around HappyHome on Social Media bij December 2022 Airbnb
    - I've contacted a social media expert who will support me through this process.
    - The week-end of 31st september we have our first sessions and make a plan of approach.
    - Create a business link on LinkedIn and Instagram to share my content
    - Start preparing the content based on all material gathered, news and postcasts shared.
    - Create a publishing calender
    - Automate all processes possible
    - make appointment for content creation weekends where content is created for 3 months ahead.

    4) Develop a masterclass on WHY Airbnb by January 2023 (HappyHomes)
    - The first session with my social media expert took place in August.
    - The list of content to be created has been made
    - 3 tiers have been identified
    - as has the irresistable offer
    - The week of October 15 -22 will be the week of recording

    5) Develop a training on how to Airbnb by April 2023
    - See my comments in point 4.

    6) Create a remarkable product for Airbnb by June 2023
    - The remarkable offer will be created based on the input from my target audience

    OPTIMIZEPEOPLE
    7) Find software developer who can develop my Skillcards by February 2023 (remarkable product)
    - Discuss the assignment with specific people in my network.
    - Discuss how to best protect the software created (what to think about if I wish to protect my code)
    - Discuss whether they can develop the skillcard and if not, who they can recommend.
    - Should this approach unexpectedly be in vain, I will set out an assignment on FIVERR
    - Based on the MOCKUP I will choose my partner.
    - Protect intellectual property
    - Protect name

    8) Skillcard automated and easy to use by May 2023
    - As the skillcard is part of my back office I'll investigate which platform to use for the best conversion: SHOPIFY or WORDPRESS with a PLUGIN
    - Have a webdesigner create my webside using the conversion checklist of Nisandeh and the idea generator challenge
    - Create an introduction film
    - Create a HOW TO Guide

    9) Create Masterclass WHY skill cards by June 2023
    - The masterclass / webinar ( I've heard that webinar has a higher conversion rate. Need to clearly understand why that is) will explain the urgency (based on newspaper articles and radio broadcasts) , problems (based on case stories), pain (based on casestories and experience of previous customers and own experience in my various roles) and the WHAT of the solution.
    - Create content (use the NEN-ISO 30401 Knowledge Management systems - requirements standards as field of reference)
    - Record masterclass
    - Publish on LinkedIn (maybe Linkedin Learning) and YouTube; Knowledge management platforms; Service Management platforms etc.

    10) Create training on HOW TO skill card by september 2023
    - Turn the content from the masterclass into to HOW TO knowledge clips
    - Reuse the content from the masterclass (LEGO blocks) as field of reference creating HOW TO use the skill card
    - Create a film of max 2 minutes on how to fill the skill card
    - create a film of max 2 minutes on how to use the skill card to mitigate risks for braindrain
    - create a film of max 2 minutes on how to use the skill card for targeted knowlegdge sharing
    - create a film of max 2 minutes on how to prioritize knowledge transfer based on the skill card
    - create many more products around the skill card.
    -- As a teaser for a bigger product, zoom uit to the bigger picture of how to use knowledge management to mitigate the risk of knowledge drain within the company based on my knowledge management framework

    11) Create Masterclass WHY transferring Implicit and transfer knowledge by November 2023
    - See point 9 replacing skillcard with tranfer of implicit knowledge

    12) Create a training on HOW TO transfer Impliciet knowledge by January 2024
    - see point 10 by replacing skill card with impliciet knowledge

    THIS IS MY PREFERRED ACTION
    - Creating the HappyHomes makes my heart sing so I will start with putting my thought on paper creating the book I would love to read myself.
    Followed by the online business for Airbnb which indirectly is connected to the same business as my vision on HappyHomes is the center of the training. The products created will also share the same logo and signature.

    1. Inspired my the V.I.P. session and the HOT seat session of tonight - 15th of September, I realize that there are so many more remarkable products to be created and offered for a high price.

      The normal price I would charge for a manual Knowledge audit by means of a tailormade skillcard was euro 25,000. For three reasons I wish to automate this process: 1) It is a time consuming process for both me and my customers, 2) it creates dependencies (vendor lockin) which is not the manner in which I like to operate and 3) my customers wants real time data (time to market is short).
      Eventhough this will no longer be my core business, this might be an intersting business magnet at a high price to be used for the business development of HappyHomes (my contribution goal)

  2. Day 5

    How am I going to do it?
    1. Good plans in my google calendar
    2. Focus
    3. Using an app to keep me on track (teamwork? Asana?)
    4. Outwardly an agenda when I am going to give the webinars so that I can have a deadline, register and take it into account
    5. Talk to my buddies above
    6. Talking about it with my master mind group
    7. If someone wants an appointment at my scheduled activities, say I can't
    8. Regularly email about new topics
    9. Post a few times a week on social media about my expertise
    10. Continue what I'm doing 🙂

  3. Day 4

    My goals:
    1. Mainly money mindset. About pricing what my products and services are worth. Get more financial insight
    2. Give a new webinar within a month
    3. Planning to give the webinars in the coming months that I also gave this spring, now for new customers
    4. Finding and Finding a New VA
    5. Clarify my new program starting in 2023
    6. Acquiring more knowledge by following training yourself on a specific subject with regard to intestines and testing and nutrition
    7. Customers who are almost ideal customers, tag them so that I can see them more
    8. Pay more attention to my (almost) ideal customers
    9. Set a good example yourself with regard to my stomach and intestines and being fit and healthy
    10. Make better planning for learning about marketing and money mindset
    11. Planning social media
    12. Let me know on social media what I'm working on (learning something yourself, creating webinars, preparing half-year trajectory)

    My main goal is to give a new webinar! (About reintroduction)
    My sub-goals are further refining the six-month trajectory + working on my (intestinal) health myself

  4. day 3

    I choose a specific commitment:
    - Time investment:
    I am going to invest 2 hours every week to learn about this specific topic (FODMAP, intestines, diets for IBS, etc)
    I will also invest 1 hour every week in marketing
    And I will also invest 1 hour every week in money mindset
    Because of what I have learned I will also teach others through blogs and webinars
    And what is also important, that I will update my book (published in 2017) and publish it again as a 2nd edition

  5. Day 2
    How do I mainly want to be known as an expert?
    1. As the FODMAP Diet Expert / Queen
    2. As someone who can train dieticians well
    3. As someone who knows a lot about stomach pain in relation to food
    4. As someone who knows a lot about all the possible causes of IBS
    5. As someone who knows what nutritional adjustments can be made in IBS
    6. As someone who knows how to get rid of your annoying belly
    7. As someone who knows how to be fit and healthy, without stomach complaints
    8. As someone who knows a lot about all possible causes and treatments for IBS
    9. As someone who knows a lot about all diets in IBS
    10. As someone who has a lot of knowledge about food hypersensitivity

    I now choose number 1 and I also think number 7 is important

  6. Just back from my holiday so I will do this part of the program a few weeks later...

    day 1
    Why do I want to be THE expert in my field?
    1. Marketing Handy
    2. Then they want to be with me
    3. Then I really know what I'm talking about
    4. Am I asked for lectures or podcasts for example
    5. Do they want to buy from me
    6. Because I'm the expert, they believe me
    7. More and more customers can come per training
    8. Being an expert gives me a wider reach that keeps growing
    9. My sales will also increase
    10. I can charge more for my services

    Yes I want to be the expert. Now mainly in the field of FODMAP and then in the field of intestinal complaints and what can professionals advise in terms of nutrition

  7. >> I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace <<

    Day 4 – HERE IS MY IDEAS FOR SPECIFIC, CLEAR, ARCHIEVABLE GOALS

    HappyHomes
    1) write a book on HappyHomes by June 2023.
    2) Book is to be publised around Christmas 2023
    3) Create awareness around HappyHome on Social Media bij December 2022

    Airbnb
    4) Develop a masterclass on WHY Airbnb by January 2023
    5) Develop a training on how to Airbnb by April 2023
    6) Create a remarkable product for Airbnb by June 2023

    OptimizePeople
    7) Find software developer who can develop my Skillcards by February 2023 (remarkable product)
    8) Skillcard automated and easy to use by May 2023
    9) Create Masterclass WHY skill cards by June 2023
    10) Create training on HOW TO skill card by september 2023
    11) Create Masterclass WHY transferring Implicit and transfer knowledge by November 2023
    12) Create a training on HOW TO transfer Implciet and Taciet knowledge by January 2024

    AND MY 1-2 SUB GOALS
    a) Learn how to make online training
    b) Chose platform for online training

  8. >> I am going to become THE EXPERT in my field <<

    Day 3 –THIS IS MY COMMITMENT FOR BECOMING THE KNOWN EXPERT IN MY FIELD.
    E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skills practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen

    1) Write 23 scripts with content
    2) Find the right location to make a video
    3) Make 23 videos of a maximum 2 minutes
    4) Learn how to create a platform for online training
    5) Learn how to make an online training
    6) Identfiy which equipment is required for an making online films (iPhone, Stand, Light, Microphone etc.)
    7) Get someone to edit the film
    8) Start shooting
    9) Invite people for a dry run
    10) Create a mailing list
    11)decide which platform to use
    12) decide which sales channels to use
    13) Create a nummer of different products (to a big audience; to a small group; one on one)
    14) Develop a number of VIP products
    15) Start cooperation with Airbnb in order for them to promote the training
    16) Learn about promotion strategy
    17) Chose promotion tool

  9. >> I am going to become THE EXPERT in my field <<

    Day 2 – THIS IS WHAT I WANT TO BECOME KNOWN FOR AS AN EXPERT IN MY FIELD
    AIRBNB
    1) How to create a HAPPY HOME
    2) I ensure that my target audience generate an additional annual income of a minimum of € 3.000 by becoming an Airbnb host.
    3) As THE EXPERT I will teach them how to make a competition table to find their price and discover their sweet spot
    4) the will know exactly how to set up the site
    5) They will know all there is to know about the different parameters
    6) How to use the platform to their own advantage
    7) They will know all about finance: how much to invest to make it beneficial. how to calculate costs when serving breakfast
    8) How to get good referrals
    9) How the referrals work
    10) How to handle bad referrals
    11) How to claim if something gets destroyed
    12) How to decorate the room so that people will love it
    13) How to welcome guests so they feel appreciated and welcome
    14) How to automate the checkin procedure
    15) How to outsource your business
    16) How to set up houserules
    17) How to create events
    18) How to generate the maximum income
    19) How to feel comfortable being and Airbnb host
    20) How to become a Super Host
    21) The benefits of being a Super Host
    22) The Airbnb Community: How to participate and what it gives you
    23) How to create a community

    OptimizePeople
    I am the expert of knowlegde transfer of impliciet and tacit knowledge
    1) How to create a skill card
    2) Which information is important for a skill card
    3) How to determine the areas of Risk
    4) How to determine your knowledge gaps
    5) How to determine the impact of knowledge drain
    6) How to prioritize your knowledge transfer activities
    7) How to determine the depth of your knowledge transfer
    8) How to create a knowledge transfer strategy
    9) How to ensure people are willing to share their knowledge
    10) How to put people at ease
    11) The importance of communication and transparancy
    12) How to use the Knowledge transfer roadmap
    13) How to use the skill card
    14) How to determine the knowledge values
    15) How to identify the impliciet knowledge
    16) How to determine which knowledge to transfer and which to let go
    17) The importance of equality in seniority
    18) The impact of knowledge drain
    19) The impact of vendor lock in

    THESE ARE THE TWO MOST IMPORTANT FOR ME

    AIRBNB
    1) As THE EXPERT I will teach them how to make a competition table to find their price and discover their sweet spot

    OptimizePeople
    1) How to create a skillcard

    OptimizePeople

  10. >> I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace <<

    Day 1 – THIS IS WHY I WANT TO BECOME THE KNOWN EXPERT IN MY FIELD.
    1) I know I have something to offer which is of big value to my target audience
    2) I lvoe what I am doing and I wish to share my knowledge
    3) It gives me immens joy to share my knowledge and expertise
    4) I love it when I see people implementing my implementation steps and benefitting from it from the first moment
    5) Saying how successful people get when implementing my ideas make me even more creatieve in developing new products which will help them even further
    6) Being approach as an expert gives me a proud feeling
    7) I love to being able to help people eliminating the pain their are experiencing for which my product is an answer
    8) I get invited to work with very big and intersting companies
    9) I sit with stimulating brains around the table
    10) The projects I am asked to do, I complex, inspiring and very challeging - and I know that however complex, I can fix it
    11) I get invited to interesting knowledge sharing events
    12) People approach me as THE EXPERT in the field which makes me proud but not arrogant
    13) I am asked to talk at events
    14) My business models are per definition valuable as I am the expert
    15) My clients pay a high fee for me without any problems
    16) Money is not an issue
    17) I can invest in training and personal development
    18) I can invite business partners to join me for a win win
    19) My target audience love to work with me as does my providers
    20) I can pay to have things done so I can concentrate on my genious
    21) I am proud to be independent
    22) I find happiness in creating, developing and implementing
    23) I can contribute to a bigger cause
    WHEN I'VE BCOME AN EXPERT, THIS IS WHAT I WANT TO GO FOR

    1. DAY 1: BEING THE EXPERT IN MY FIELD, THIS IS WHAT I WANT TO GO FOR

      AIRBNB
      - claim my expert position by creating an (online) training

      OPTIMIZEPEOPLE
      - Writing a book on identifying, transferring and intergrating tacit knowledge

  11. Week 10
    Day 5. Design a plan to grow your expert position

    I think the most important thing is doing research, writing blogs/articles and going out in the world. Showing my expertise. I have already started by posting three times a week on SocMed.

  12. Week 10
    Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals

    1. Write a book that is accessible
    2. Organize a lecture
    3. Get an invitation to give a lecture
    4. Rewrite my ebook
    5. Doing research
    6. Start with writing a synopsis
    7. Making a plan how to advertize it all
    8. Brainstorm with likeminded people
    9. Talk about it with my customers during a 'round table' discussion
    10. Make a moodboard

  13. Week 10
    Day 3 Day 3 – What is your specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority
    I am going to write an article/blog every two weeks about a sustainable subject. I am also going to put the article/blog on my website, on LinkedIn, SocMed and in my newsletter. So people will know that I know what I am talking about.
    I am going to organize a lecture/information evening about a sustainable subject every four months. I am already reading and learning a lot about sustainability but there is always more to be learnt. I will try to read even more and take courses. Looking for specific courses..

  14. Week 10
    Day 2 Define WHAT do you want to become an expert in

    I want to become an expert in everything that has to do with sustainability. To be more specific: slow fashion. Secondly: slow food. Within the subject sustainable there are so many different subjects but I want to focus on fashion and food. I also have a travel blog on sustainable travelling. So I guess that is a third subject. But the three are intertwined...

  15. Week 10
    Day 1. Find your compelling WHY
    1. There is more and more attention for sustainability these days
    2. There is a lot of greenwashing
    3. The big shops try positioning themselves as being sustainable
    4. It is necessary for people to know about sustainability
    5. It is a complex world outthere
    6. There are so many researches about sustainable subjects
    7. It is a really interesting field
    8. A lot of people are confused because there are so many lies
    9. Greenwashing clouds people's judgements
    10. It will be a challenge

  16. Day 5 – come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions;

    find JVs to work with together
    * make an IO for them
    * Make list of JVs that I would love to work with
    * Approach them - and when they say no, have the guts to ask how I could make it interesting enough so they WILL say yes

    every week go for one day on my bike and visit companies to hand out the book in person
    * do research and make a list of companies that I want to visit
    * call the secretary and make appointments with the RIGHT person to hand over the book and give them options on the specific dates that I have
    * send them something upfront to warm them up
    * create an elevator pitch that I will deliver together with my book - and find for each of them what is their challenge

    Get publicity
    * Talk with Janneke (VIDM) for help
    * make the call with the reporter
    * when she agrees, go to Vattenfall and have a call with their media department to get the CEO to receive the book
    * use this to talk with others too

  17. Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;

    Main goals:
    1. Book. Book, book, book. To be honest I would prefer to not have more ideas at the moment because it will get me excited and I will take my eyes off the book haha.
    2. Give webinars on my topic for free
    3. Get publicity (thursday I have a call with a reporter for AD)
    4. Start publishing one exercise every week (and have people register to a flow of 10 different ones maybe?) (@Marcel Dassen if I do that I will share this workflow with you) - after that put on the newsletter
    5. Post on LinkedIn every week
    6. Start writing the next book on hybrid working (and find companies to come look internally at hybrid meetings and help them to get them better - free offer)
    7. Work on a specific offer together with Elske on how to use hybrid working to leave less footprint as a company
    8. Start a YouTube channel where I can share cool exercises and tips on creating an effective team in a hybrid environment (see? I would LOVE that, but my book should be my first priority now:))
    9. Find associates and JV partners to work with together
    10. Every training that I give should be better than the one before. (this is quite a biggie for me since I am scared of reflecting... (I know I should...)

    Main goal: the book.
    Sub goals:
    * find JVs to work with together
    * every week go for one day on my bike and visit companies to hand out the book in person
    * Get publicity

  18. Day 3 – come up with a specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
    E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skills practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen…;

    I am already writing a book, it’s almost done. I believe that this book will skyrocket my expert position. I am committing to spend at least one day EVERY WEEK from now on to promote my book. I prefer doing this face to face, but I have many ideas on how to do this in a different way too (the ones that came up in the first week)

    Next to that: I am already reading all the books in DUTCH that are there over the topic, and I will keep on reading all the english material also. I will also keep on training myself in becoming better, I will register for the next NVC training too and keep on practicing.

    Because I want to give away as many books as possible, I will need to print a lot of books and give them away. I put away at first 1000 euro to print my own books, which will be around... 200 books, I think.

  19. I am writing this one week behind the group, mainly to document my answers for later.

    Why becoming an expert
    Legacy, change the world-
    To be able to do the project that really make an impact on the world: sustainability, climate, poverty, diversity
    To be able to combine my heart and my head, and have people longing for that (passion)
    to make a difference, value and impact x 1000
    get an easier life- money wise
    get an easier life, client and project wise- people come to me
    To be able to give more, money, education, wisdom
    less frustrations of the kind I face now (doing stuff i don't like)- to be able to build a great working team
    Make other people happier
    have more fun

    choose: tomato a difference by helping to solve the worlds problems.

    What expert in/ famous for:
    solving complex issues- to unravell/ getting things done in no time
    making things simple+fun+ + seems easy to do
    energy bringer
    story teller: consensus and meaningful dialogue bringer
    change excellerator
    Asking great questions, so people get great insights
    facilitator (of innovation)
    quick analyses (zoom in zoom out)
    Agile scrum- leader (more for like a method)/ to create cooperation
    Break through creator
    maximizer of what to cancel/ not to do (rode streep)
    Creator of the Wheel of the Product owner- method
    Creator of Focus, Energy and Cooperation- method

    Choose
    Thé go-to to get complex stuff done in no time

    Commitment:
    Finish the book (I know, I keep saying it...)
    Start my morning routine at 6.00- 8.00 (yoga, meditation, walk/play the dog, breakfast, read)- practice self discipline and lead by example
    Get to know the absolute main frustrations and wishes of my ideal clients

    Get an assistent (delegate, automate)
    create 1 new website for design sprints 'projectin2weken.nl'
    create 1 new website for product owners: product owner gilde (with henny)
    create an online course for product owners
    create an online course for scrum basics
    create an online course for FEC
    create an online course for design sprints (what it is)

    create an introduction video about myself

    do a training how to present online trainings
    get my certifications in order (highest ones)
    Maybe do an internship at a firm in Berlin that I love (for fun)
    write 1- 3 more books (FEC-method) and 'myths of projects/ management' and YEAH! (just general ideas, outlines are there)
    Get merchandise rolling

    Investment: 10% of income

    Goals:
    Get an assistent (september)
    Finish the maindraft of the book (sept, publish in januari)
    Start marketing book (oct)
    Interview 3 main ideal clients (sept)(video?)
    Interview 5 ideal users (sept) (video?)
    Finished 1 design sprint last week, now collecting 5-10 testimonials, more sprints coming (ongoing, directly after it is done)
    Create videos from the design sprints (help...!)
    Main idea new website online (nov)
    Create an introduction video of myself (sept/oct)
    Merchandise list ready (oct)
    Start creating the FEC-method (jan)

  20. Day 5. Come up with as many ideas as possible to get to my goals.

    1. Get a ghost writer
    2. Write at night
    3. Have a list with topics available so I can use any 10 minute window to write
    4. Record calls with friends
    5. Get other experts to write for me
    6. Go through my archives and see what is useful
    7. Record short videos that can be used unedited.
    8. Get clients to ask me questions and use the answers as posts
    9. Ask clients to write about the results we got
    10. Join content sharing groups.
    11. Create a big survey to get some cool results
    12. Ask people to write about their personal growth moment.
    13. Get trainers and coaches to write about their challenges and solutions.
    14. Get short whatsapp conversations that can be posted as screenshots
    15. Use an image generator for cool images
    16. Find a dedicated artist to draw images for me.
    17. Find a writing buddy.

    I am going to find a writing buddy who wants to write together every day. And have a big list with topics and power words available so I can produce quickly any moment. When all is going, I will have a look at the AI generated images and a dedicated artist from fiverr to support my writing.

  21. Day 4 + 5
    Having too many goals would spread my focus and efficiency too much.
    Only two goals:
    - become known as the expert, helping and flexible supplier with personal access
    - augment my expert status just before launching my training program
    How to:
    By creating the right and targeted videos that show my expertise, my understanding of their problem and all the possibilities they can have/get to get their problem solved.

  22. I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace.

    Day 1 Why
    1. Share my knowlidge
    2. Let other people bennefit from it
    3. Connect people with the same question
    4. Make life more better/easier for people
    5. Have influence on the world
    6. Give parents ande childeren there trust in theme selfs back
    7. Developpe another way of judging children by test standarts
    8. Deliver value to the schoolsystem
    9. Change the way we test childeren
    10. Earn enough money to build a training center for testing different

    Day 2 What
    1. Educator for childeren from 0-6 years old
    2. Become a parents dictionary for easy life with childeren
    3. Be the autority on Iq test
    4. Be the expert on giftedness >145+
    5. Out of the box thinker
    6. Motivator for parents and childeren to stand up against the testing system
    7. Toddlres with high potential
    8. Analist of IQ tests
    9. Writer of a book about different IQ testing
    10. Filantroop and test for those who need and can not afford it

    I choose to become a expert on using IQ test for better results for childeren

    Day 3 Specific commitement
    1. Dive deep in the most common IQ tests on a scheduled based day/time moment in agenda.
    2. Reserve half a day pw to work on the resulst, write them down
    3. Plan meetings with collegas upfront on the first day we start to stay in the flow and be commited

    Day 4 Achivable goals
    1. Ranking IQ test by most used against most valuable
    2. Collect the data I already have from all different places
    3. Layout my goal strategie to my collega`s and look if there is a different/better way or what is missing in the plan
    4. Let PA surch for amount of psychologists and orthopedagogen
    5. Let PA go over linkedin to surch in my connections for usefull prospects
    6. Make a survey for schoolteachers to invest what they miss in a avarage IQ test
    7. Make video`s about CF and EF and games
    8. Write blog post about CF and EF and games
    9. Think about the end product and the marketing strategy it needs
    10. Make an appointment with one of the biggest know testing bureaus and speak with theme about the plan

    The main goal would be 3 because after reading theme again it goal 3 has 1 and 2 in it.

    Day 5 Achive the goals
    The one and only action to achive anny of the goals is to acutaly set the date for the foiorst meeting with my collega`s and I did it by creating an app group and we came up with 9 sept, in the morning as beeing the starting moment.
    I will then tell theme what I want, how and in wicvh time frame and then see what they come up with in better of different ideas by letting theme use the 10 idea system.

  23. Day 5 of 5 - Concrete actions

    1. Claim domain name for academy (done)
    Schedule a conversation with Marcel Dassen.
    3. Have a conversation with Luc Donners (31-8-2022).
    4. Scheduling dates for working on my 6 month program.
    5. Scheduling dates for elaborating my 5 workshops.
    6. Conducting conversations with strategic partners (5-10)
    7. Speaking at (network) meetings of the VGS. FUTUR, VOM, NSOB.
    8. Writing a blueprint book neglected municipal organizations
    9. Recalibrate blueprint book leadership and cooperation.
    10. Writing blogs in the run-up to starting community.

    I will do 1-4 and 6 in August and September 2022.

  24. Day 4 of 5 - Goals

    1. Develop the new 6-month program Conscious Public Leadership for 15-12-2022 together with the recruitment and selection agency.
    2. Complete the book on leadership and cooperation of complex administrative public organizations together with Pieter Parie before 1-7-2023.
    3. Write a new book in the field of neglected municipal organizations and how to guide them to recovery together with Luc Donners before 1-1-2024.
    4. Establish an Academy for Public Leadership by 12/31/2022.
    5. Seek collaboration with other trainers or strategic partners to grow the Academy before 7/1/2023.
    6. Start building a community of conscious public leaders (conscious virgins to master/executive level) on (start 1-1-2023)
    7. Develop a 4-hour workshop on what the SECRET of the job of an Citymanager is (improved version ready on 1-3-2023)
    8. Develop a 4-hour workshop on how to restore neglected municipal organizations by 5/1/2023.
    9. Develop a 4-hour workshop on which strategies you absolutely must adopt to become a high-reliability organization by 6/1/2023.
    10. Develop a 4-hour workshop on how leadership is related to talent development in government organizations.
    11. Develop an improved version of my existing 4-hour workshop on how to properly or appropriately establish and strengthen leadership and collaboration in government organizations (1-2-2023).

    I choose 1 and depending on what I learn in the coming months in WOMB2022 under the guidance of Nisandeh and Vered I wisely choose the next steps.

  25. Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;
    - become THE LEADER in off-grid housing in 5 years
    - fully understand heat-need in common Dutch houses + interaction with humans/airflow/isolation etc
    - become an ideal trainee on Triple Solar, combination of heat and power + get a referral by 1 of the key stakeholders of this company
    - design a completely new ideal house based on complete off grid principles
    - build a prototype of an off grid social housing wooden not so tiny, tiny house
    - become a thought leader on energy independence, energy consumption, resilience
    - start building easy implementable small steps + products
    - develop a learning tool for our clients tot enable them to think about the energy need themselves.

    Mail goal:
    Become THE LEADER in off-grid housing in 5 years
    - build a prototype of an off grid social housing wooden not so tiny, tiny house
    - become a thought leader on energy independence, energy consumption, resilience

    Day 5 – come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions;
    - develop + test a completely new concept of in-house energy usage/availability in 3 years
    - develop clear working manuals on all products we offer and make a concept for working out any content on energy production, usage, storage, availability, transport etc. within 1 year
    - make a long list of available products on heat and power and test them 1 bij 1.
    - get the right person trained to implement the test projects
    - start filming/photographing all new projects from now on.
    - make my website ready for social media integration + blog-posting/knowledge sharing within 3 months
    - start ordering content for a course/book/zoom session and make the Q&A available for clients via an online meet.
    - plan time for every activity during the week, also preparations + office work

    Tell my story + decide to develop it well and add every time to the knowlege base.

    1. This is an impressive list, Matthias… and a big vision.
      It seems like now you’re walking the leadership path.
      How does it feel?

  26. Day 5 – come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions;
    When I look at the questions from yesterday and today, I think I'm messing up specific, clear, achievable goals with preferred actions. I allready made actions yesterday.
    Tomorrow I'll work out the schedule of the PersoonlijkeKracht-training. It will be finished in four months (or less).

    1.
    Finishing the training of PersoonlijkeKracht in next four months; by following the training schedule;

    2.
    * exercise kaval every day, at least 2 x 15 minutes;
    * exercising embouchure at least 2 x 15 minutes every day, in connection to sfincter-exercises;
    * exercise sfincters every day at least 2 x 15 minutes, following methode Paula Garbourg and Rita Beintema;
    * exercise dancetraining with sfincters at least 2 x 15 minutes;
    So summary I can do training one hour morning and one hour evening and integrate all in it.

    1. Supplement about Personal Power day 5;
      Finishing the training of Personal Power in next four months; by following the training schedule;
      Schedule is a 10-step-plan. It says: 'This 10-step plan gives you the structure to go through and complete the PK-Training in an effective way. You will find different assignments to learn on 3 levels: 1. Strengthening your Personal Power 2. The growth of your company 3. Experience as a PK-Coach.
      Can be done in 10 to 12 full days, I choose to do it on saturdays and finish around end november.

  27. Day 5 – come up with as many ideas as possible to actually achieve the goals you wrote yesterday and choose your favorite actions;

    The ideas are incorporated in the goals and in the other assignments.

  28. Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub-goals;

    - 1. Reach 100 000 followers

    - 2. Reaching 50 000 virgins of my target group who are registered in the app./online learning environment and pay € 22.99 per year

    - 3. 100,000 people use the ideal match on the platform http://www.fietsrepatratie.nu

    - 4. 9.6 bicycles per day at 200 affiliated bicycle repair shops with a focus on delivery vans

    (100,000 assignments : 52 = 1923 per week : 200 participants = 9.6 bicycles per day)

    - 5. Explanation / repair videos have been made of all work assignments.

    - 6. the bike repair app is used by 1000 mechanics and pay €5.00 per month (€60,000 per year)

    -7. Get paid for using/promoting products. A product every week and €2500 for the promo (€130,000)

    8. Online training courses are given and recorded and then sold again.

    9. Set up a mobile bicycle repair shop for the ANWB (or another party) and I will receive €1.00 per repair order. The assignments are 100 000 (is € 100 000 per year and this is growing)

    10. I am asked to attend lectures and workshops.
    Main Goal 9 and Main Goal 3

  29. Day 3 – Make a specific commitment to become a known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
    E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skill practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to consider to make it happen…;

    I'm going to work as the bicycle repairman.

    - By recording weekly podcast.

    - By sending a daily email, from entertainment with a reference to videos where I share my story and then an online training.

    - During working days I make videos of working as a bicycle repairman. On social media. Now also watching tik tok

    - I will receive (Monday certainty) I will have a complete workshop set up and I will do a promo with it and make videos of all assignments

    - I'm going to make online training for maintenance and the top 10 bicycle repairs for the racing bike
    for the ebike
    for the mountain bike
    for the cargo bike

    - I start the day with the live savers and cold showers. Sports and healthy eating. The best business starts with you

  30. Day 2 – come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHY you want to be known as an expert and pick one or two that are most important to you;

    1. To do why I'm here.
    To live my potential, not that little boy's anymore.

    2. From the knowledge that Nisandeh told in the meeting that you really only want a virgin as a target group. And to experience for yourself how stubborn bicycle mechanics they (experts) are they know it all so well and better but they work very hard, earn very little and only complain. They don't hear me when I have solutions. Do I have to be an expert myself?
    Or how do you connect with an expert?

    3. Expert or specialist is still seen as the one who has experience and has learned for it, that's why you want to be a customer with them. You would rather go to the specialist or expert for pain in the back than the doctor or let them help you by the assistant.

    4. Expert position gives me the stage to share my experience. To take the podium.

    5. Especially by the virgin target group customers you are really seen and they are amazed and they want to know everything about you and they remain loyal to you.

    7. As an expert I can position myself and distinguish myself from my competitors.

    8. The role provides certain focus. Gives certain power

    9. As an expert, you are valued when you give your opinion or are asked for your opinion. Also here by the virgins and not by the expert himself.

    10. The term expert (Latin: experts; 'experienced, tried, proven, sound') or expert refers to a person who is expert in a particular field. An expert is expected to have a lot of knowledge and experience in a certain field. and I have. And somehow I sometimes make myself small because I don't know everything (eg everything about electronics of the eBike) and yet I get them all made. I've got something to do here.

    Thank you. NR. 1 means something to me. Commit to why I'm here.

    I have things to experience and embody and pass them on.

    I've got enough on my pad, which is all learning material. Earning comes naturally when I start doing what I'm here for.

    When I'm grateful.

    If I follow my heart

    and lles kennsi that I have gained now really going to do instead of fun experiences and looking for even more warnings and challenges.

    1. The most important 2

      4. Expert position gives me the stage to share my experience. To make it to the podium.

      9. As an expert, you are valued when you give your opinion or are asked for your opinion. Also here by the virgins and not by the expert himself.

  31. I realise that I am late, but I did not have enough time this week and it took some time.

    1. the Why. Be the number 1/be the point of contact/be a reliable partner/supplier/To charge a higher hourly rate/Gain recognition/be distinctive/focus/ gain trust/serve customer optimally/expand network in my field of expertise
    2. the what to be known as expert. Bavaria specialist; travel guide for Bavaria; focus on customers' needs and expectations; organise unique group tours; deliver quality at the highest level; be a holiday coach for Bavaria; advisor for questions on tourism; travel coach for companies; travel coach for schools; travel consultant for all-inclusive holidays.
    3. commitment to make it happen. At least 2 months per year stay in Bavaria and at least 15 appointments and new partnerships per year with tourism-related companies; collect literature, travel information, tours.
    4. the Goals. 1) 3 group tours which I accompany myself.
    2) 1 group tour with an external guide
    3) 3 group tours where no specific guidance is needed but "digital guidance" suffices.
    4) 1 group tour with external expertise
    5) develop a digital travel book
    6) Research into the desirability of additional Bavarian products and articles whether these can also be offered
    7) cooperation with 5 external partners of products (e.g. bikes, hikers, etc.) needed for our group tours
    8) at least 50 non-bounce visitors on the site
    9) at least 30 completed bookings by 2023
    10) get at least 20 enquiries per month for additional info

    5. HOW to achieve. Making the concept of qualitatively EXCELLENT group and package tours a reality. A style that makes the customer feel that our trips are different and better than other group trips. In 2022 this wil be clear inclusive the new website.

  32. WOMB WEEK 10, AUGUST 26 2022, DAY 5/5
    GROW YOUR EXPERT POSITION
    HOW TO ACHIEVE MY COMMITMENT GOALS:

    Main Goal

    1. Break down my specific commitment into clear and strategic tasks and start working on a detailed schedule: Executable Plan de campagne. How? By:
    * Use the Idea Generator for each commitment and choose the ideas that will bring me closer to my goal
    * Take time to contemplate if the choices are really strategic (on a regular basis)
    * Collect the chosen tasks and organize them by category (knowledge acquisition, skill practice, implementation, etc.)
    * Prioritize the tasks and plan them in the agenda (within my 15 work week hour commitment)
    * Build a routine that enables me to implement the tasks with 100% focus
    * Set ONE goal per week (maximum three), and ONE purpose for each hour of work
    * Establish a fixed moment (weekly) to set goals and evaluate results
    * Report my progress to my accountability bodies on a weekly basis
    * Come up with some progress levels (gamification) by establishing exciting/meaningful milestones and establish upfront how I am going to celebrate/ reward myself

    Sub Goals

    2. Write down in detail my Expert Vision/ Leader Philosophy and find a great name for it. How? By:
    * Organic brainstorming: write down all the ideas, observations, theories, and experiences about parenting. Everything that comes in mind
    * Organize the ideas and select the best ones
    * Come up with good questions to ask myself and others, for example: why do I want to be a parent? What is the meaning of parenthood?
    * Dare to extend my thinking to the horizons of the nearly "impossible". Like the Wright brothers once did about flying.
    * Continue exploring my own parenting vision through journaling. Establish a system how to find back Eureka insights
    * Make sure to always have a way to record ideas (even in the shower)
    * Read relevant literature on parenting styles and philosophies
    * Create a silent, Thinking retreat at home (as part of my weekly routine)
    * Continue finding out what my ideal clients want, and contrast it with what they need/ have to do in order to get what they want (break down the process)
    * Design my ideal client Journey starting with the hardest pain (sleep deprivation) and work it out into THE ONE VISION (reverse engeneering)
    * Inventarize all areas in life that impact the hardest pain (and therefore parenthood) and analyze how they relate to/influence each other
    * Research the existing concepts out there and play around with different word combinations until finally finding the right name for my vision
    * Blog about it and encourage constant engagement/feedback from ideal clients

    3. Create my Compelling Why Vision Board poster. One with the power of getting me out of bed at 05:30 am every day How? By:
    * Use the four entrepreneurial quadrants (independance, fulfillment, money, and contribution) and write down what is important to ME. What do I want?
    * Think about "The Seasons of My Life". At which season am I right now? What is important to me? What is no longer important and why? What could become important in the future? Consider this introspective in the Vision Board
    * Then search for compelling images, quotes, and questions that move me to the core. For example what happens when you don't stand up now?
    * Include the concept of Cycles and Seasons in a beautiful visual way
    * Delegate and barter the creation of the board to a photoshop master (based on my instructions)
    * List it and place it next to my bed. I want it to be the first thing I see when the alarm sounds at 05:30

  33. WEEK 10, DAY 5 - ACHIEVE THE GOALS
    Come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions.
    [Design a plan to grow your expert position
What will YOU do to achieve the goal(s) you’ve set for yourself in the previous step.]

    1. I finish the workbook of A Course In Miracles before February 15, 2023 by practicing (almost) daily
    2. I keep up with the latest developments on the chosen subject.
    3. I make notes of everything I learn about the subject.
    4. I write blogs on the chosen subject and post them on my company page on LinkedIn once every month - to begin with, and increase this to weekly before December 31, 2023.
    5. I develop a remarkable product (Back End) on the chosen subject before March 1, 2023.
    6. I develop a fitting client magnet (Front End service/product).
    7. I know and use my own life’s purpose, personal qualities and strenghts.
    8. I adapt my website accordingly in small steps before March 1, 2023.
    9. I involve my ideal clients in the development of my remarkable product.
    10. I ask clients to write or film reviews and recommendations.
    11. I hire someone to make and execute a mutichannel marketing plan.

    
I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace.



  34. Day 4 Specific, clear and achievable goals

    1. Sell our first PO event (without having a clear program yet)
    2. Sold more than 200 pieces of our box Het Wiel van de Product Owner -out of the box-
    3. Organize at least 2 “Scrum Gilde Amersfoort” meetings
    4. Be invited to speak at one conference
    5. Sell 2 trainings for Product Owner this year
    6. Initiate the online “PO Gilde” community
    7. One post a week for the coming month and expand to 2 a week
    8. Get one extra PO coaching assignment this year
    9. Clear visualisation (on paper) of my expert position

    My main goals are nr 6 and 9. Subgoals that are contributing to that are nr 2 and 4

  35. Day 3 of 5 - Commitment

    Next year I will spend at least 1-2 days a week further increasing my expert status in the field of leadership public organizations. I will be writing two new books next year on leadership and collaboration of complex administrative public organizations (book 1) and on empowered municipal organizations and how to guide them to recovery (book 2). This makes it even more clear that I know how this kind of organization should function and be managed. And what this means for (the professional growth of) the directors who are responsible for this.

    By building an Academy, I am the founder and owner, helping leadership talent grow from (conscious virgin) to the successful government manager, and then to the level of conscious public leader or leadership.

  36. Day 3 My specific commitment

    For me it was a difficult assigment to describe my commitment. On the one hand to clarify what that expert position entails and on the other hand to clarify the commitment I give.
    I have tried to reach my commitment based on the descriptions of Maru and Max (Thanks fort he inspiration!)

    I want to commit to become a know expert in the field of Scrum Product Owners. By helping Product Owners with coaching, training, tools and events.

    Time investment:
    - 8 hrs a week (besides a 24 hrs a week role as Scrum Master coaching PO’s and teams)
    - Get a weekly routine in order for working ON my business

    Knowledge Acquisition:
    - Get clear what my expert position entails
    - Find out what the real question is from my clients
    - Actively participate in blogs or posts on social media
    - Read all kinds of relevant literature
    - Get my PSPO II certification
    - Perform interviews with Agile enthusiasts
    - Incorporate servant leadership

    Skill Practice:
    - Giving training and work on my preparation
    - Use our (tool)box in my projects
    - Share knowledge during events
    - Use the Idea Generator as a daily routine in my business
    - Delegate social media to an intern

    Budget
    - Out of pocket approximately 2.500 euro besides the non billable hours (8 a week)

  37. Day 5 – come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions;

    To develop a yearprogram solving your Burn out, light your fire. and to test it in a group. Actually start my first paid group before christmas.

    Ideas to make it happen:

    - interview myself and my recent clients on their proces of burn out healing, what was most helpful?
    - do depth research on what/who is populair in solving the problem and why (www.psyned.nl/burnout/burn-out-behandeling/)
    - Create the program in detailed goal oriented training-sessions, including WOW experiences
    - Test the program in short with a testgroup (people I know who had a burn out),
    - design website.
    - acquisition-actions for first group ( network mindmap, buddy session.)
    - Make it remarkable (after the VIP session on 1 sept)

    And now I am ready to join the VIP event how to create your remarkable product and sell it!

  38. WOMB week 10
    Day 2 of 5
    What do I want to be known for as an expert?

    1. The expert in the field of leadership public organizations: he knows how this kind of organization should function and be led and what this means for (the professional growth of) the directors who are responsible for it.
    2. The expert on how the municipality REALLY works?
    3. The expert who helps leadership talent grow from (conscious virgin) to the successful government manager, and then to the level of conscious public leader or leadership.
    4. The expert who always gives and helps.
    5. The expert who only delivers a lot of added value.
    6. The expert who understands that integrity and professionalism are key in an official organization!
    7. The expert who moves government organizations and the people who work in them.
    8. The expert who connects talent development, leadership development and organizational development in a logical and beautiful way.
    9. The expert who gives the G.E.H.E.I.M. of (the profession of) Citymanagers knows (book was published in 2021 and sold almost 1,000 copies.
    10. The expert who fully fulfill his potential (and talent).

    I choose a combination of 1 and 3.

    PS. Last Monday I 'sold' my new (not yet existing) 6 month program for conscious public leadership to the recruitment agency, which means that I will have between 20-40 participants (ideal clients, read directors) in my program next year.
    And I also immediately sold an existing 6-month program De Successful Government Manager, so that 20-60 participants per year will also join it. A few years later, these participants want to take the next step, which I can then guide in the next program.

      1. Thank you, Nisandeh! I am working hard for it. By the way this is no complaint, but in my field of colleagues and clients only in this community there is understanding about the work you have to put in to be successful.

        I am grateful to you Nisandeh en Vered that I can and may learn so many things from you. Although it is hard and I am really working my ass of, it helps me to experience your tough love mentoring. I implemented all this lessons and insights many years now since 2012 as much as I could and found ways to adapt it in government environment and it brought me really a lot. To much to mention here.

        And of course I learn every also from the other students in this WOMB programs! Especially my buddies Bas and Marcel. 😉

        Time for a big shoutout and hugs from me from Amsterdam!

    1. Hi buddy,

      Congratulations on this impressive result. This is going very fast and in a moment you are not the expert but the leader 🥳

  39. day 5
    Come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions;

    1. I start with making a blueprint for the training
    2. make a goal (the one thing) for every day/every block/every exercise
    3. make a plan how to precent it.
    4. search more data/information (names/dates/info)
    5. look if its for al kinds of people (auditory/visual/kinesthetic
    6. search for the WOW -experience exercises
    7. how can I overdeliver? search for someting in line of the training.
    8. have fitting homework
    9. provide a kind of buddy system
    10. have video's to support the content

    11. plan this in the agenda!!

  40. Day 4

    1. giving the best trainings ever in sept
    2. Have valuable trainings-content
    3. have fitting energetic music
    4. vlog
    5. Have clear content for website/publicity
    6. promotion for the parents training (with starts at 26 sept)
    7. have the next training planned (the date)
    8. have the online course online
    9. have the second edition of "effectieve gezinscommunicatie' done
    10. have one good working communication channel on soc media

    main goal: nr 1, i will start with 2 and 3

  41. Day 5 26-08-22

    – come up with as many ideas as possible to actually achieve the goals you wrote yesterday and choose your favorite actions;

    Goal 1 inventory where I am now and I will immediately implement this here:

    1. Research is ongoing and should be completed by the end of next week.
    2. There is only one competitor who offers from specialist to manager. What he offers I will process in what I will offer for free and surpass it.
    3. Create a questionnaire for specialists who have just become managers and post it on my website. This allows them to indicate what their ideal training should look like to become a better manager. I'm going to start thinking about the questions today (already done!).
    4. Offer the first trial training for free as a reward.
    5. Place call on LinkedIn and post on my profile. My existing customers ask to share this.
    6. Develop the pilot training and this should be ready by the end of September.
    7. Offer the trial training at the beginning of October and choose a location where I will give this training.
    8. Turn the trial training into a full training and offer it as a free front end. Deadline for this is the end of November.
    9. This front end appears with ActiveCampaign as a floating window on my homepage.
    10. Clarify the follow-up product based on the experiences of the first training. I make an inventory of this with the evaluation forms where they can indicate which follow-up suits them best. The options for a follow-up are either an intense group training/course or a number of personal coaching sessions, for example five or a coaching trajectory that I already offer.

    This is goal 1 and gives me a clear direction for the first month. I am curious how this process will develop.

    In the meantime, I can get to know the people who fill out the questionnaire better by inviting them to a podcast or a blog. My conclusion is that I will have my hands full with this in the near future. Moreover, I also find this quite exciting.

    My insights from this week:

    1. With these virgins I can enter into a lasting relationship from starting manager to an excellent leader.
    2. Hold out to my virgins a purpose that fuels their expectations to get the best out of themselves. That they can achieve this goal by remaining loyal as I keep helping them one step further to achieve this goal:

  42. Define WHAT do you want to become an expert in:
    1. raising kids
    2. family communication
    3. VHT Video home training
    4. words and pictures trainer
    5. gordon communication trainer
    6. giving frames instead of boundaries to kids
    7. training proffs instead of parents
    8. trainer for proffs in disabbled area (people who work with disabbled people)
    9. help//train parents who have a family member with aquired brain injury
    10. breading Markiesjes
    11. satir categories

    I can combine a a few things ....my focus is 2. family communication

  43. Day 5 - Plan to grow my expert position:
    * Make a list of books to read and course lessons to follow as research
    * Offer 1:1 for research purposes (to explore their wants and needs, to take them from A to B) and as beta version of new service
    * Redo the About page of my website: tell more about my journey and my progress, to earn the right to be considered an expert
    * Generate lots of content:
    - Blog weekly with podcast version
    - Define a strategic content plan = blog/podcast, newsletter, IG posts, IG stories to support my plan to grow my expert position

  44. Day 5 – come up with as many ideas as you can how to actually achieve the goal(s) you’ve written yesterday and choose your preferred actions;

    Planning
    Clear goals
    Commitment
    Focus, no distraction
    Time management
    Clear division of tasks and responsibilities
    Setting delivery dates

    Preferred actions:
    planning and commitment

  45. Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;

    Most important:
    Prepare presentation together with business to promote our ideas for other team members. Date Sept 13.
    Set date for planning videos with business partner. In consultation, before September 1
    Write (finish) scripts for videos, in consultation, before October 1.
    Finish reading book about my topic coming week

    Other:
    To be determined following the presentation on September 13

  46. Day 2 – come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHAT you want to be known for as an expert and choose the one or two that are most important for you;

    I am known for being unique
    Result exceeds expectations
    Session with Rudolph are fun
    There is a lot of trust
    Rudolph creates a safe learning environment where you dare to experiment
    Coaching is focused on your own goals
    Great aftercare
    Value for money
    Training in small groups so that a lot of attention is paid to each participant
    Combination training and coaching very effective

    Most important
    Rudolph creates a safe learning environment where you dare to experiment
    Combination training and coaching very effective

  47. day 5: how to achieve the goals:
    - plan it in my agenda
    - promote it
    - update the content
    - work together with my team for the techn. details
    - "use" my ambassadors
    - build a team around the movie
    - ask people how to publish a book abroad
    - plan the podcasting
    - have fun with everything

  48. Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;

    - online masterclasses ( 1 x p.month)
    - webinars (1 x p. wk for 3 month)
    - Q&A (1 x p.month)
    - publishing the english version of my book RESOLVED before the end of 2021
    - ask for recommendation
    - start podcasting about the book
    - build a team around the movie I want to make
    - luistbuilding activities
    - re-using my blogs and write new ones
    - re-use the Theatercollege
    - go on stage again
    - share parts of my book on social media
    - update my online course on different platforms I already use

    I start with the weekly webinars and the monthly Q&A (for all my students)

  49. Day 5: ways to achieve the chosen goals (first 4 are the ones of choice for the short term)
    1. Build a new site for the new program
    2. Build a new (umbrella) brand for the various (loosely related) programs
    3. Start giving webinars
    4. Start triggering people to follow the webinars
    5. Build an opt-in giveaway for the new program
    6. Approach certain media to offer them e.g. a weekly/monthly column
    7. Write more books
    8. Start blogging / list building again
    9. Reach out to influencers / celebrities to interview them, team-up, offer them something
    10. Start giving larger scale seminars

  50. Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;

    * I'm playing the kaval now since february 2020, so I'm at least one and a half year ahead of my ideal clients.
    specific, clear, achievable goals:
    * exercise kaval every day, at least 2 x 15 minutes;
    * exercising embouchure at least 2 x 15 minutes every day, in connection to sfincter-exercises;
    * exercise sfincters every day at least 2 x 15 minutes, following methode Paula Garbourg and Rita Beintema;
    * exercise kaval together with my husband on diatonic accordion, in order to be able to perform together;
    * and discover how to build a method for that in concrete small steps;
    * discover how to develop an online course for embouchure & sfincters;
    * discover what other experts allready do online,
    * Develop to offer that for free;
    * exercise dancetraining for 15 minutes every day,
    In connection to sfincters; sfincters are part of this dancetraining; from Kaouthar Darmoni;
    * and in connection to vitality

    1.
    Finishing the training of PersoonlijkeKracht in next four months; by following the training schedule;

    2.
    * exercise kaval every day, at least 2 x 15 minutes;
    * exercising embouchure at least 2 x 15 minutes every day, in connection to sfincter-exercises;
    * exercise sfincters every day at least 2 x 15 minutes, following methode Paula Garbourg and Rita Beintema;
    * exercise dancetraining with sfincters at least 2 x 15 minutes;
    So summary I can do training one hour morning and one hour evening and integrate all in it.

  51. Finish my Website
    Get it online
    Sent it into the word: LinkedIn, Facebook, mailinglist
    Ask my Vips to brainstorm with me on the acquisition of the Leergang
    Handle my dissapoinents the consequente of eralyer decisions
    Get more clear in buisiness and calling
    Write blogs
    The most important is to handle my disapointments at this moment of time.

  52. Day 4 – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;

    1. Develop a yearprogram Burn out , light your fire! AFTER research on the best existing programs
    2. test the new program in a little group
    3. set an individual price for joining the yearprogram
    4 create a professional website around the program
    5. including actual (video)testimonials
    6. talk to docters and psychologists in my city Haarlem about my program
    7. talk to trainers who work with stressed teams in organisations about cooperation
    8. create a professional video about my problemsolving program
    9. started first yearprogram before christmas 2022 with 8 clients
    10. parallel project: video editing the online version for in my parent academy.

    I have to start with number 1 and 2. Creating great content for the yearprogram and testing the program in a testgroup (including buddies).
    Its both doable in a few weeks time. In october I can start the testing.

  53. WOMB WEEK 10, AUGUST 25 2022, DAY 4/5
    GROW YOUR EXPERT POSITION
    SPECIFIC, CLEAR, ACHIEVABLE GOALS

    In order to build and grow my expert position, I commit to achieving the following goals:

    1. Break down my Specific Commitment into tasks and integrate them into my 15-hour work week routine. Set a clear purpose for every hour of work. Just DO it!
    2. Write down in detail my Expert Vision/ Leader Philosophy and find a great name for it. This vision will show people the future
    3. Write my first 10 blog articles and plan/schedule their publishing
    4. Delegate the creation of my 3 Things Website (plus payment method)
    5. Make the first concept draft of my FEBE funnel based on my findings about what ideal clients want
    6. Create the structure (chapters) of my first Bestselling book, according to Nisandeh's method
    7. Create a Vision Board poster of my Compelling Why, the one that will get me out of bed at 05:30 am every day
    8. Write the Baby Hotel Manifesto
    9. Make my first sales without having created the product
    10. Build a community of Ideal Consciousness Virgin Clients

    My Main Goal is Nr. 1 (thank you Vered for giving me this assignment today during the 2-star coaching)

    My two Sub Goals are Nr. 2 and Nr. 7

  54. Day 4
    1. Writing a book
    2. Creating a funnel to empower my expert position
    3. Creating a VIP product to show I’m the expert
    4. Creating the best martial arts classes to show I’m an expert
    5. Changing the website(s) to promote myself as an expert
    6. Creating and communicating a clear vision that can last for ages
    7. Set standards (raising a bar) for clients I work with
    8. Create high-quality video reviews
    9. Clear payment policy: Pay, barter of free. Never just give away money like it isn’t worth it.
    10. Creating a video course
    11. Giving regular martial arts classes for free. (only pay for classes within my expertise)
    12. Partner with other experts in my field or complimenting fields
    13. Get a bigger following on Social Media

    I know the book will be the biggest step but it’s out of my comfort zone. Probably can make a chapter about it within the book I want to write.

    Having the best VIP product out there will be my main focus. Already know it won’t be my last VIP product. Feel I really want to do something with intensive training in short and long-term settings. But only a very small niece will want that. Those are my ideal clients and just have to work to get through to them through different levels of clients.

    Also looking into providing free classes next season or so. Eliminating the competition in that aspect.

  55. Day 4. Goalsetting.

    10 goals I can go for to measure my success as an expert.

    1. Be introduced to someone as a coach for coaches.
    2. Have a 1000 people read my book
    3. Be invited to speak at a conference on personal growth.
    4. Have a 1000 pages on my website
    5. Have the number 1 ranking page on a popular searchterm (my first thought is "personal development", but I will finish my research first)
    6. Be invited as a trainer for coaches to an organisation or event
    7. Have 10 coaches certified in my FLOW method
    8. Have a steady 1000€ passive income a month from courses or a membership program.
    9. Be invited to the Tim Ferris show as a guest
    10. Be fully booked for the next year
    11. Sell a live training to over 500 people
    12. Have 1000 returning clients.

    For the coming time, I will be focussing on content creation. So my goals are:
    Have 1000 new relevant pieces of content linked to my website
    With 2 supporting subgoals:
    1. Write and publish a book and have a 1000 people read it.
    2. Have a number 1 ranking page on a popular search term.

  56. 4. Clarify/define/set your goals
    What would be your goal(s) that will represent for you becoming a/the known expert in your field (being invited to give lectures in professional conferences, publishing a bestselling book, winning a prize…)
    I want to start a podcast. My book “de klik methode” has been sold out and needs to be reprinted. This is a very nice moment to promote it again.
    Expert blogs I’d like to write and I am in the process of getting my video testimonials professionally filmed.

  57. Day 2 Define WHAT do you want to become an expert in
    Remember the points I shared during the last Hot Seat session (serving people for decades vs/ fads, don’t build an expertise that will shoot you in the leg, serve the SAME clients for 10 years or more, the difference between celebrity business and a scalable expert business…);

    Sales and then the cold prospecting is what I want to be known for, together with my method: De Klik Methode. A selling method with the focus on psychology and relationships. How you make a “klik”. Using this method is very effective and rewarding if you do cold Prospecting. Or deepen existing relationships. It teaches you to make a real connection and to influence your customer in the right way

  58. 3. Commit to become a/the known expert in your field
    Becoming known as an expert is not the same as being an expert… You might be already an expert in your field – but to be KNOWN as one – takes time, effort, and other resources.

    I am going to commit tot his proces. First of all I am going to work on my mindset. And investigate how other people have got tot his position. Why invent the wheel?

  59. 1. Find your compelling WHY
    Why is it important for YOU to become a known authority/expert in your field/marketplace?

    I want more of ideal clients and be able to spend as much time as I need to make them a succes. I want to be able to charge them a good price so I can spend this time.
    My customers will come “by themselves” because I am an expert. They will pay more because they expect the best.
    I like working with my ideal clients, 😊

  60. Day 4 25-08-22

    – come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub-goals;

    1. Through the research, my goal is to discover a unified problem of my ideal customers.
    2. The next goal is to develop a front end to solve this problem, but specifically for specialists who get a leading position.
    3. Blogging topics that interest new managers.
    4. Create podcasts with topics about authentic and effective leadership.
    5. Create a training program for large groups of new managers.
    6. Write a book on how to become a good manager as a good specialist.
    7. Create a “Help, my supervisor doesn't understand me” podcast to demonstrate the need for good executives.
    8. Make a YouTube movie with the 10 most important mistakes that specialists who have just become managers make.
    9. Make a YouTube film that shows 10 points that you should do as a starting manager.
    10. Set up my website in such a way that specialists who have just become managers recognize themselves in this immediately and that immediately ensures conversion.
    11. Develop a coaching and training program that focuses precisely on the learning points of new leaders.
    12. Setting up a digital work environment for my specific target group.

    My main goal is to develop a front end for my specific target group and the sub-goals are to connect my website to this with, among other things, targeted blogs, videos and podcasts.

  61. DAY 4 - CLEAR GOALS

    1. Schedule jan - april 2023 free for this (done)
    2. Start generating ideas for articles to write (december)
    3. Schedule the daily WOMB -time differently. Setting a time doesn't work for me, apparently. I'm going to apply the habit stacking principle for this (this weekend)

    There's not much more to do but this. The big work will be done in the first months of next year, which I'm looking forward to.

  62. My compelling WHY was there from the start: I like to show everybody the beauty of this country, it is so amazing.

    To be an expert we started and go on with these ideas:

    • Tourist offices of several area's start blogging on our website. We have yet an agreement for 3. Next month we have schedule some more.
    • An expert of the country(writes so many blogs) is going to blog on our website. We do the translation, and she writes. The first blog is almost ready to publish.
    • We make series of mailings(automation) of tourist information for each client. Non of our competitor gives this information, as far as I know. We have collected the items and start (delegate) with rewriting.
    • Publish twice a week, instead of once.
    • New partners. That helps to makes us an expert for house owners. We have two types of clients. 1 the guest en 2 is the houseowner. Last week I have contact 2 of them. And both like to cooperate. Next week number 3.
    • Make a magazine. I can hardly wait to start. Not this week. We must schedule that. At the end of the year, we can start.
    Also, non of our competitors have it, till now. That will be a paid product and free for our guests.
    • Our next website in English will be a kind of a platform. There is a lot of prepare. I have started a few months ago and that idea generator is filled up with new ideas, every week. I have start with a book, in September a training.

    There will come more ideas, but for now it is more than enough. I have always a lot of idea’s, never a lack😊
    I have made from each idea generator a document and add each week. This works very good for me.

  63. WEEK 10, DAY 4 - Specific goals
    Come up with at least 10 ideas for specific, clear, achievable goals and choose your main goal and possibly 1-2 sub goals;

    1. two sold-out high end training sessions in 2026
    2. at least 10 sold-out retreats up to and including 2025
    3. release a bestseller in 2024
    4. 10,000 followers on LinkedIn
    5. a first application for giving a lecture to entrepreneurs
    6. people volunteer to work for me
    7. a big interview in a national newspaper
    8. a big interview in a magazine like Flow or Happinezz
    9. be asked to participate in a government think tank
    10. a youtube channel in my area with 10,000 subscribers
    11. release an award-winning game in my field
    12. visiting professorship at a prestigious university

    My choice
    Main goal: two sold-out high end training sessions in 2026
    Sub goal 1: eight sold-out retreats up to and including 2025
    Sub goal 2: release a bestseller in 2024

    >> I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace. <<

  64. Day 4: specific, clear, achievable goals (#1 is the main goal, while the others are still relevant)
    1. Build / grow my own audience (and sales), rather than primarily via partners
    2. Get more partners
    3. Get more content with my partners
    4. Get better business out of my partners
    5. Create more content
    6. Approach alumni of the current bigger program for the new bigger program
    7. Deliver the content in ways that have a bigger impact
    8. Incorporate more of the recent client feedback items
    9. Upgrade my network
    10. Arrange more coverage on the social media

  65. Day 4 – Goals
    I will write a book about my area of expertise within 2 years
    I will record the onboarding meetings with my mastermind group participants before and after the trimester and will use as study cases for my book
    I will implement an ongoing survey system to ask my target audience what are their biggest obstacles and challenges regarding my area of expertise
    I will bi-weekly blog/podcast about how to solve the aforementioned problems

  66. Day 3 – Specific commitment
    I am committed to spend at least 12 hours per week acquiring knowledge and practicing my skills.
    I am committed to spend at least 12 hours per week acquiring knowledge and practicing my skills.
    Basically most of my content creation effort will be dedicated to acquiring and sharing knowledge, and while delivering my services I will be practicing my skills.

  67. Day 3 – come up with a specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
    E.g.
    For now, these two matter most to me:

    * personal power and colors;

    * strengthen sphincter chains in relation to vitality and embouchure of woodwindinstruments.

    time investment

    * going on exercising Bulgarian Kaval;
    * education in sfincters I allready have, find out if I need more;
    * exercise more sfincter-exercises, in relation with embouchure musical instrument and soundquality;
    * finishing education PersoonlijkeKracht;

    knowledge acquisition

    * look on internet what other people do with sfincters and embouchure;
    * figuring out myself what can be the connection between sfincters, embouchure, soundquality, personal power, colours;

    skills practice

    * going on taking lessons and exercise Kaval as a main instrument;
    * going on exercising sfincters, in connection to embouchure musical instrument;
    *
    * going on with fullfilling training PersoonlijkeKracht myself, and get certified;

    budget reserved

    * going on at least 5 years taking lessons on kaval;
    Maybe lower frequency than now;
    * so reserve budget for lessons, most online, sometimes live Bulgaria or Netherlands;
    and renewing musical instrument;
    Possible to do that within business-account, not as a private person;
    * budget to have some basic level instruments for sale for cliënts;
    * small amount travel expenses;
    * reserve budget to develop online course and p.r. on social media;

    * budget for buying materials from PersoonlijkeKracht in advance, but cliënts will buy that materials from me during coaching & training;

    or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen…;

  68. Day 3
    I'm going to research what 'regular experts', 'celebrity experts' and 'well-known experts' do. My view is totally shifting on every aspect of my business. Want to learn from them and in some cases probably go in the opposite direction.

    Time investment, knowledge acquisition and skills practice are quite a bit combined in my case.
    Learn and practice my martial arts skills. Becoming better and better with time.

    Need to make more money so I can pay for training with different kinds of instructors. My yet-to-make VIP product should help big time with that!

    All in all, I need to do a lot of work!

  69. Day 2:
    What I want to be known for:
    1. No one left behind
    2. Translate technical language to normal language
    3. Provide the bigger picture
    4. Translate the bigger picture
    5. Reliable
    6. Based on black on white proven science
    7. Straight on honest communication
    8. No hidden agenda
    9. Motivate
    10. Inspire
    11. Learn how to fish
    12. Loveful confrontation
    13. Efficient principles
    14. Useful tools

    Most important: proven knowledge and loveful confrontation

    Commitment:
    Do even more cut the crap, confront in stead of just teach.

  70. My commitment:

    I commit to creating content on my area of expertise daily and publishing it.
    Once a week I will publish a blogpost on my expertise.
    And once a week I will use a different format than writing.

    Time investment:
    1 hour a day, growing to 2 hours a day next month.
    Possibility to shift the hours around a bit to get a free weekend for instance.

    And in the next month a weekly extra 2 hour session to create the topics and prepare them for the writing machine.

    Knowledge acquisition
    I have an NLP course that has been waiting for me to take it for years now.
    Get my certification in order + get support from a friend to hear what tracks he is on.

    Knowledge creation
    Combine a lot of my existing knowledge on business & websites & personal growth with coaching and training.
    Create a list of every tool I use and represent the most important ones in clean formats.

    Skills practice
    I am giving a training to a group of 30ish people later this year. Create my own definition of success to support my expertise. Work on personal presentation, charisma, clarity of my explanations and spirit.

    Budget
    10% of my turnover to a training budget.
    10% of my turnover for materials (both physical and virtual, like a camera or phone, or photoshoots and comics. I could even get branding advise.)

  71. DAY 3 - COMMITMENT

    1. Reserve 3-4 months free next year to practice my skill
    2. ...build my toolbox
    3. ...build a portfolio of work for potential clients to see
    4. ....write articles
    5. ....get my first new ideal clients
    6. (This year...) research companies with similar business models in different industries
    7. Revamp my LinkedIn profile
    8. Come up with outlines for articles about the WHY and WHAT of using my expert service
    9. Make a list of ideal clients I'd like to work with
    10. Approach them for interviews to fine-tune my proposition

    For the longer-term:
    - Continue working with the tools of the Clarity Process
    - Participate in all the retreats that my teacher is still doing before she retires
    - See if she can support me to share the process
    - If that's not possible, look into the German Clarity teacher and check if retreats are also given in English (and if not......I better start learning German)
    - Connect more with other people that are doing the process
    - Research, experience more ways to work with the subconsciousness (past reality integration, hypnosis etc)
    - Reserve enough free time to BE and open up to what life is giving me instead of thinking too much about the future
    - Keep growing the way I'm growing, every day
    - Organize evenings to exchange about money and money management with friends and their friends...identify their challenges and desires
    - Start clarifying what tools I use for money management
    - Continue reading and learning about it, increasing my financial IQ

    1. DAY 2 - WHAT CAN I BE KNOWN FOR

      1. Software development (front-end)
      2. User interface design
      3. Mindfulness / meditation
      4. Eliminate stress, live a relaxed and healthy life
      5. "Recover" from a burn-out
      6. Clarity Process (working with the subconscious mind)
      7. Money mindset, healthy money habits
      9. Playing the piano
      10. Yoga
      11. English
      12. How to read a book and not forget the contents
      13. Trading in general
      14. Trading cryptocurrencies
      15. Finance, in/de-flation theory

      For the short/mid-term, I choose (1), my current business expertise.
      Why? It takes a relatively small investment to get from 75% to expert status, ROI is very high and it's a way to get my heart back into my business again.

      For the longer-term, (6) Clarity Process and (7) Healthy money habits. 6 For sure, 7 maybe...I'm not in a hurry and I'll see how things develop.
      Why 6? My heart is with it 100%. I practice it daily and it has had a tremendously positive, magical impact on my life and the people around me.

      1. DAY 1 - WHY BECOME AN EXPERT?

        - Much easier to get ideal clients
        - Deliver more value to those clients, faster
        - Help those clients deliver value better and faster
        - Save frustration
        - Have more fun
        - Get paid better
        - Have better, more relaxed and open connections with clients
        - Work less = more free time
        - Eliminate stress
        - Fall in love with my business again

        !! YES I WOULD LOVE TO BECOME AN EXPERT !!

  72. WEEK 10, DAY 3 - COMMITMENT
    Come up with a specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday. E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skills practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen.

    My commitment
    * I spend at least 1.5 hours on my chosen expertise 5 times a week to gain more knowledge about it, experience it, and write about it.
    * I spend an additional 20 hours creating an e-book about it or any other suitable client magnet.
    * I spend an additional 80 hours developing a remarkable product about my expertise.
    * I spend an additional 10 hours adjusting my communication channels.
    * I reserve €1000 for necessary expenses.
    * I pay extra attention to every signal my ideal clients give related to my expertise.
    * I reflect on my own behavior 3 times a week: am I living according to my own expertise?

    >> I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace. <<

  73. Day 3 – come up with a specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skills practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen…;

    What to do to stay on top of my came

    Meditate
    Eat healthy
    Sleep 8 hours
    Do my Tao exercises
    Drink water
    Read thé I Ching and practice this
    Do my qigong
    Keep up whit the latest business developments in the world
    Look for ways I can be of better service.

  74. Day 3 – come up with a specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
    E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skills practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen…;

    To become an expert in the field of stressrelease I will focus on burn out. I will implement yearprograms that will solve the problem of empty - battery grown - ups, eg parents: having a full battery again and inspired to work and live from the heart.

    Those people have not a clue how to solve their problem. I can, as an experienced expert in one year. I can work from home or in companies with burned out workers.
    - time investment: create a superb yearprogram, in one month.
    - I will invest in a short course for burn out coach, to enrich my program and to let clients know I am an up to date expert.
    - I do have a lot of skills practiced as coach, trainer and massagetherapist.
    I have worked with many burned out people. I can create one product now and make it powerful.
    I can work together with other trainers and coaches in companies and or huisartsen and psychologists. 😀

    Have to create website, linked in page etc. Around burn out. Clear communication on one product.

    Next to that my commitment will be creating a parent-academy.as said before there is an overlap. A lot of parents are overworked parents......

    Budget needed: 5.000 euro in the first year. Price of yearprogram: around 3000 euro. But I have to do more research omn product and price.

  75. Day 2. What you want to be known for as an expert
    1. Helping PO’s to understand their role and responsibilities
    2. My profound knowledge and expertise of and experience in Scrum
    3. Ask the right questions
    4. My energy and enthusiasm
    5. My servant leadership
    6. I can connect people to get better answers tot heir questions and challenges
    7. All the succesfull PO’s that have created awesome products
    8. All kinds of good exemples of governemental organisations that are working more effective and creating the best product fort heir inhabitants
    9. The great events I’m hosting form Scrum enthusiasts where they can learn, develop en have fun
    10. The tools that we develop to make your (work)life easier
    11. The energetic and informative trainings and workshops

    1. I forgot to mention my most important WHAT.

      For me the most important parts I want to be known for are:
      1. Helping PO's to inderstand their role and responsibilities
      9. The great events I'm hosting for Scrum enthusiasts where they can learn, develop and have fun
      11 The energetic and informatieve trianings and workshops.

  76. Day 1 Why do you want to become an expert.

    1. Serve and help people (e.g. Product Owners)
    2. Earn more money by charging better prices
    3. I’d like to be asked for help
    4. It’s more easy to start at new clients/organisations
    5. To grow my/our business (sell more and different products, hire people to help me/us)
    6. To be part of the innercircle of the Agile/Scrum “world” so I can contribute to the Agile legacy because people listen to my opinion
    7. Getting more and better clients
    8. Because I want to have a positive impact to people and organisations
    9. Fulfillment
    10. So I can learn every day form other people
    11. Get lots of products and books for free because people asks me to read/use and give feedback. This supports my every day learning
    12. I will attract clients who wants to develop, learn and are committed to their role.

    I would like to become a known expert in the Scrum Framework, especially in coaching the Product Owner role.

  77. WOMB WEEK 10, AUGUST 24 2022, DAY 3/5
    GROW YOUR EXPERT POSITION, SPECIFIC COMMITMENT

    In order to grow my expert positions I commit to:

    Time Investment:
    * Invest15 hours a week (outside WOMB and motherhood time)
    * Make use of this time wisely: practicing simplicity and avoiding distractions
    * Build my entrepreneurial routine: waking up at 05:30 every day (except on Sundays) in order to get the most of my day
    * Practice discipline and self-management with the limited time I have

    Knowledge Acquisition
    * Teach what I live (by just doing it)
    * Find and work with consciousness virgins
    * Write my own books
    * Journal about my parenting journey (what works, what not, setbacks, results, etc.)
    * use the "Feedback Analysis" method (compare my desired outcome with the real outcome)
    * Perform interviews with ideal clients and other experts
    * Read relevant literature
    * Actively participate in blogs
    * Finding out what THEY want
    * FEBE funnel

    Skill Practice
    * Attract my ideal clients
    * Writing Blogs according to Nisandeh's method
    * Filming Vlogs
    * Delegation
    * Automation
    * Idea generator
    * Referral method
    * Work out my body, mind, and soul
    * Resilience: Failing and standing up as fast as I can

    Budget Reserved
    * No budget reserved, I will start from Zero. This is really out of my comfort zone and a huge challenge for me

    1. This is BRILLIANT, Maru…
      I’m seriously considering how to get you involved as a coach for the participants of the next round of WOMB .
      You are a role model.

  78. day 3:
    my commitment for becoming the expert in transforming conflicts into freedom, connection & love
    - dare to shine
    - share all what I have and specific be visible in video's, movies.
    - I posted in my last three blogs my "road" to be more visible. The fun and fears with it and shared some video's anyway. Feels like moving to a next level I enjoy because it resonates with my WHY to express myself this way.

  79. Day 3 24-08-22

    – come up with a specific commitment to become a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
    eg time investment, knowledge acquisition, skill practice, budget reserved or other parameters you need to consider to make it happen…;

    As a result of the last Zoom session, I have discovered the virgins for which I want to become the specialist. I also made a step-by-step plan for that. The research with my ideal clients is still ongoing. Once I've filtered out the problem that everyone is struggling with, I want to offer the solution for free. The solution that I will offer will have to be a solution in which my expertise is more specific.

    I am already an expert in developing authentic behavior because the results and references show it, but I am still too little known as an expert. I have enriched this expertise with effective behavior and used it for authentic and effective leadership for board and management. Now what is my commitment to become the expert helping specialists become effective leaders?

    The commitment I can already make is: to make a free front end for them on my website and I need a month for that. Of course a front end with a WOW effect.

  80. Day 2 - what I want to be known for as an expert:

    1. Online meetings - how to make these better
    2. Facilitator
    3. How to build a team using meetings
    4. How to build a team that is working hybrid
    5. How to brainstorm
    6. How to make decisions where everybody stands behind
    7. Teambuilding
    8. Working effectively together with a remote team all over the world
    9. Energy
    10. Creativity

    The main ones?
    1. Build and grow a team that is working hybrid
    2. Online meetings

    I just my offer to my ideal client including a video where I introduce myself;)

  81. Day 3: my commitment to becoming an expert
    My commitment of choice is that I’m going to incorporate more of the characteristics / features that respondents gave as feedback to me, of what my program(s) should need, if they were to consider it as a program of 5 star top-value.

  82. I am going to become a known expert in my marketplace.
    Day 1 – come up with at least 10 answers for why do you want to become a/the known expert in your field and make a decision IF becoming that expert is what you want to go for;
    1. I think that a beautiful world starts at home. As many parents as possible should get the information how to do that.
    2. parents find me
    3. parents love to learn about family-communication
    4. In communication 'everything' comes together. You can do it if you know how. therefor people have to know about the possibilities
    5. built a legacy
    6. train other trainers/proffesionals
    7. train a lot of parents
    8. Be also know bij grandparents and kids
    9. live a healthy wealthy wise life
    10. somebody should do this work and I love to be the one
    11. turn shame into proud (when parents chose to learn about raising kids)
    12. live a life of contribution.
    13 give it forward
    14. earn money

  83. Day 1:
    1. To get customers more easily
    2. To sell more easily
    3. To feel more free
    4. To allow myself to express myself more
    5. Attract ideal customers
    6. Speaking opportunities
    7. Easier networking
    8. Better marketing
    9. Easier branding
    10. Better projects

  84. WOMB WEEK 10, AUGUST 23 2022, DAY 2/5
    GROW YOUR EXPERT POSITION, WHAT EXPERTISE?

    WHAT do you want to be known for as an expert?

    I want to be known as the expert on the following topics:

    * Eternity (life after death, eternal life)
    * Life and Death (the purpose of life and the power of Memento More to live intensely)
    * Dia de los Muertos tradition (Mexico)
    * Parenting (Attachment and unconditional parenting styles & Parenting for Eternity)
    * Healthy and great romantic relationships
    * Marriage (how to keep a vibrant marriage)
    * Home Building (Theology of Home)
    * Healing through food
    * Mexican Food
    * Cinema / Movie making, analysis, film scripting
    * Catholic Faith and apologetics
    * Entrepreneurship
    * The lost Art of Femininity (feminine dance, how to put your emotions into movement)
    * "Hablar con el Corazón en la mano" Talking from the heart

    The two that are the most important for me are:
    1. * Eternity (life after death, eternal life)
    2. * Parenting (Attachment and unconditional parenting styles & Parenting for Eternity)

  85. Day 2 – come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHAT you want to be known for as an expert and choose the one or two that matter most to you

    * Light power healing;
    * Yoga; Hybrid basic yoga and feeling training;
    * Strengthen sphincter chains; Hybrid training over sphincters (eyes, throat, diaphragm, pelvic floor);
    * embouchure wind instruments;
    * personal power and colors;
    * vitality in connection with nature;
    * naturopathy;
    * connecting power places with movement, sound and making music (primal flutes, kaval);
    * teaching people to play primal flutes from intuition;
    * bone strengthening;
    * dance;
    * hand postures and spiritual mudras;
    * sitting still and meditation;
    * facial yoga;
    * creativity;
    * kaval, embouchure and sphincter muscles;
    * voice and sphincters;
    * Making music (alone and together with my husband) and offering it for special (festive, religious?) activities;
    * Making music and connecting that with Eastern European music and OER wind instruments kaval, ney;
    * Sharing the process of learning to play a (new) musical instrument in your third phase of life;
    * Making music and connecting it with music from Sufism;
    * Making music and involving kaval, singing bowls, frame drum;
    * Herbal medicine according to Bulgarian traditions;

    For now, these two matter most to me:
    * personal power and colors;
    * strengthen sphincter chains in relation to vitality and embouchure of woodwindinstruments.

  86. WOMB WEEK 10, AUGUST 22 2022, DAY 1/5
    GROW YOUR EXPERT POSITION, COMPELLING WHY

    Why do you want to become a/the known expert in your field?

    I want to become the known expert in my field because/to:

    1. Be/stay passionate all my life
    2. Discover, develop, and use my genius to positively transform people's lives
    3. Serve people, become a servant leader
    4. Serve God by using the talents he has given me
    5. Deliver lots of value
    6. Be able to work at flexible times
    7. Be able to be the architect of my own destiny
    8. Build my personal branding
    9. Build and leave a legacy
    10. To be on stage, I love being on stage!
    11. To inspire people and make them in love with life
    12. Live a life of contribution
    13. Have a strong voice that voices the voiceless
    14. Buy my parents a beautiful home
    15. Provide my parents with happy, worry-free old days
    16. To be a full-time inspiring mom
    17. Teach others why/what/how I live
    18. Dive into the depth of my topic of expertise
    19. Always keep learning and developing
    20. Have a great passive income
    21. Design and sell products, services, and experiences around my expertise
    22. Work with unlimited passion
    23. Stop trading my time for money
    24. Have diversified sources of income
    25. Work on something that truly matters to me
    26. Travel the world and bring my family along ^_^
    27. Be able to live anywhere I want
    28. Provide my own perspective and unique contribution to the world
    29. Constantly get out of my comfort zone
    30. To constantly be writing my own book
    31. To push/expand my own limits
    32. To express my opinions and deepest beliefs (way of expression)
    33. To become an artist in my expertise
    34. To make my own "spicy sauce", bring my personal touch
    35. To contribute to the development of my country Mexico
    36. To give people a new refreshing and life-changing perspective
    37. To work with ideal clients ONLY
    38. To simplify difficult knowledge and explain it in a way that people understand
    39. For the sake of creating all the time
    40. To have influence and impact on society
    41. To build great companies around/from my expertise
    42. To become a serial entrepreneur
    43. To employ lots of people and provide sustenance to many families
    44. To feel fulfilled, at peace, and happy on my death bed
    45. To make my first million euros

  87. Day 2 – come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHAT you want to be known for as an expert and choose the one or two that are most important for you;

    1. Healhy lifestyle
    2. Relaxation of the mind
    3. Minfulness in daily life
    4. Massagetherapie
    5. stressrelease
    6. Burn out
    7. Happy balanced days
    8. Happy kids and parents
    9. Bullies and ninja s
    10. Passiontest implementation

    I choose 5 (stressrelease) and 8 (happy kids and parents) because they cover the area s I am passionate about.
    I will have to do more research in these area s how I can build an expertposition.
    Urgent needs, whats missing here? How can I really make a big difference...... 😀

  88. WHAT I want to be known for as an expert


    1. Horse-Human Interaction and Communication. SEE all subtle details the horse is expressing, including becoming aware of the Electromagnetic Energy field.


    2. Horse-human Relationship and Connection. Connect from the HEART and not based on pressure, Experience Heart Coherence with horses. How to become the human your horse wants to be with.


    3. Horse Biomechanics and Healthy Movement. Train your eye to see if your horse is balanced. Understand the natural asymmetries of the horse and knowing how a good posture looks like. Difference between physical structure and posture.


    4. Horse Training on the ground. Connect horse to breathing. Help the horse get fit, healthy and better balanced with advanced lateral movements made easy.


    5. Horse Anxiety/Trauma and Healing. The window of tolerance. Parasympathetic nervous system and polyvagal theory. Giving the horse a choice to work with you. Make them feel safe.

    6. Horse Bodywork. The power of soft touch. How to release tension in the horses’ body.


    7. Horse Riding. How to educate horses to carry a riders correctly. What exercises you can do. How to build strength and flexibility from the saddle. How to ride without a saddle based on breathing, energy and seat.


    8. Body Awareness for Riders. Breathing, Spinal alignment, Energy. Educating the rider how to be a good rider and not hinder the horse in it’s movement but improve it. Reconnect to the wisdom of their own body so they are more present and work intuitively with their horse instead of from their head. Become a confident rider (many riders are afraid).


    9. The positive effect of horses on humans. I came out of a burnout/depression mainly thanks to my horses many years ago. That’s when I decided to quit my office job and work full time with horses. It doesn’t feel like working anymore because I love what I do. 


    10. How you can change your career when you are 40+. I hear that I have inspired people to quit their job and pursue their passion when they hear my story (see 9.)

    11. Team training with horses. A couple of years ago, I had some companies asking for team training with horses (Rabobank, Nike International amongst others). As I worked in international corporate teams I can translate what is happening with the horses to what is happening in the teams.



    It’s hard to choose as they are all so related. Right now I think I’m known for my natural connection with horses and the fun & easy that I radiate when I work with them. My first online course is called ‘True Connection - How to connect to yourself and your horse through conscious breathing and meaningful body posture’. 

I However, don’t want people to think that I ‘only’ spend undemanding connecting time with my horses. I also want to be known as a knowledgeable and capable horse trainer and overall expert in horse-human relationship, training, riding, trauma etc.

  89. In what am I an expert?
    1: I give people direction and hope. In that sense I am introducing virgens into an other realm of living.
    2: I am expert in combining modern Psychology and Old Knowledge from ancient traditions
    3: I know about energetics In and in between people
    4: I have a deep developed sense for quality and animation.
    5: I know about transformation processes beyond the models and theories.
    6: I have a deep developed sense for the vital themes that are at stake in individual people and groups
    7: I have a deep developed sense for the operating unconsious.
    8: My deep developed senses I can make operational
    9 I have great clearness in implementing growth in daily live.
    10 I have a great sense for timing the what and the when
    10: I am expert in listening and sensing in and stay present fully
    11: Even in deep healing processes I can see the humor. For me this is a sign of being an expert
    12: I have a great inner flexibility
    13: My morals are mostly rooted in qualitys.
    14: I can be present with pain and discomfort
    15: I can combine deep energetic psychological processes of healing or awareness with practicality.
    16: I am deeply aware that although I did a lot of work, all is given and am so gratefull for that recieving. For myself and the.people I work with. In respect and honor and with a full heart
    Today I can not choose one of two out of this list. Being an expert is hard or do I need to find the red thread that is underneath them all?

  90. Why become an expert?
    1: I do not become an expert, I AM one
    2: When I can clearly decide to become an expert I make a stand in myself.
    3: I make a stand in myself and thus in the world
    4: I always wanted to be a generalist. I often think that experts are closed off people that Know and are being right I am starting to change that mindset
    5: into why not being an expert in opneness, curiousity and being part of the whole?
    6: This in fact could be one of my expertises.
    7: What do you do for your work is a question I often get. Just recently I start to get the right words for it. Even though I have been considered to be an expert. I did not act like one. Making myself smaller or dressed myself up with something that was not realy me as an expert.
    8: It would save tons of energy
    9: It would save tons of time
    10: To be an expert needs a solid ground in me. I developed that stand and clearness and alignement in the last 10 years. I feel like open my wings and fly when I allow myself to be an expert.
    11: The readyness and courage to bring forward what I think that is important. Cut the crab. I like that.
    12: Money will hecome more easy or even the willingness to not make a lot of money with my expertise

    .

  91. Day 2
    Simple answer: Martial Arts Expert
    Difficult answer: Not sure yet how to differentiate between all the others yet. We all look the same. But I’m getting there step by step. It probably will be something of intensive courses and/or long internal stays like people normally do in China. Don’t have the time right now to dive too much into this. Done some very heavy implementation of the What Would Nisandeh Do session last 2 days. Changed the program, new website, new marketing… Already resulted in 3 new members for 495,- each (Dubbel normal fee) only 3 spots left and tell it every where I can.

    Need to create time for more diving into this subject, ideal clients and a general WHY I'm doing anything in the first place.

    1. That’s fantastic news, Logan, about the new program with 3 members paying double…
      Speed of Implementation…
      Well done!

    2. 1. Expert in intensive (martial arts training) courses
      2. Expert in martial arts training implementation in daily life.
      3. Weapons expert
      4. Teaching expert

      Really can't think of anything else. Maybe someone with less of a tunnel vision has some input?

  92. Day 1
    1. More clients
    2. More ideal clients
    3. Better paying clients
    4. More referrals
    5. More and better clinic request
    6. More publicity
    7. More growing opportunities
    8. Easier to make a real difference
    9. More fun
    10. Less discussion / more acceptance

    I want to be an expert. In some way I already am. But I’m still one of many and not THE Expert.

  93. Day 1. Why do I want to be known as an expert?

    1 My clients are experts in their own field
    2 or my clients are striving for an expert position
    3 Only as an expert I add value and make a difference
    4 From an expert position, the job of facilitator/mentor is fantastic to perform
    5 An expert has appeal
    6 As an expert I can be selective with whom I want to work
    7 As an expert, I am always looking for more depth. I read about my topic, follow training every 2-3 years in search of new methods and periodically attend meetings with colleagues. That keeps the work interesting for me.
    8 Customers are willing to recommend me
    9 Clients may be willing to introduce me to others
    10 Less time and energy in acquisition

  94. This is my conclusion:
    I am the business expert for trainers and coaches.
    If you are a trainer and you believe in your message. Then it is time to stop doing things yourself. Together we can increase your impact, while you focus on your trainings and we build the business around it.

    All my ideas and sub ideas:
    1. Personal effectiveness
    -- Keep "the flame" burning
    -- time management
    -- task management
    -- delegation
    2. Financials
    -- Peace of mind in financial situations.
    -- Making agreements
    -- Planning
    -- Budget
    3. Parenting (I mean, I already do this for about a month 😀 )
    -- games
    -- songs (including personalising them)
    -- value based parenting
    -- keeping your cool
    4. Team building
    -- creating self directing teams
    -- taking pride in simple tasks
    5. personal growth
    -- coaching
    -- change behaviours
    -- change attitudes
    6. supporting trainings
    -- creating logs
    -- logistical management
    7. verifying business plans
    -- effectuation
    --creating MVP's
    8. Writing business plans
    --Choosing a target audience
    -- market research
    9. Cooperation
    -- 1+ 1 = 3
    -- the third win
    10. Websites
    -- wordpress
    -- sales pages
    -- SEO

  95. Week 10 - Day 2

    What would I like to be know for as an expert?

    1. When I was a kid and the Rubick's Cube was invented, I thought: "Someday I am going to invent something brilliant that will sell around the world and I will be rich and never have to work again." That's something I actualy still would love to experience. To have invented something smart (and simple) that everybody will use or have. Something like the paperclip, or the zipper, or velcro (klitteband) or a game or a toy.
    2. A specific methode that is used by companies to make their employees more creative (and happier at the same time).
    3. My own ideas that helped make Domino Day (2004-2010) become a succes.
    4. My humor.
    5. A smart invention that helped to make the earth greener or the oceans cleener.
    6. My inspiring seminars?
    7. My kindness
    8. How I could always make people look at their problems from a completly differend angle, so they could think of solutions that they otherwise never would have thought of.
    9. That I never let work got in the way of family and friendships.
    10. My wisdom

  96. Day 2:
    What I want to be known for:
    - transformation
    - conflictresolution
    - authenticity
    - commitment
    - never give up
    - there is always a solution
    - creativity
    - be the change
    - leading example
    - clarity
    - simplicity
    - non-judgement
    - connection
    - freedom to be
    -independent
    -changemaker
    - contributing to peace, freedom, connection and love

    I’m the expert in transformative conflictresolution
    I’m becoming a superstar in transformative leadership

  97. Day 2 WHAT
    I have clear in what I am already becoming an expert, but I am not sure which of these way of stating is clear for others to understand:
    * Expert in organization and productivity for busy women entrepreneurs.
    * Expert in clarity, focus and action to implement business ideas.
    * Anti-distraction and anti-procrastination: I’m expert in implementation.
    * Slay the excuses and annihilate your list of pendings: I'm an expert in implementation.
    * Expert in helping busy women entrepreneurs to prioritize and implement their business ideas.
    * Expert in clarity, focus, prioritization, planning and execution to implement business ideas.
    * From your mind to the paper to reality: expert in organization and productivity to implement your business ideas.
    * Expert in freeing time and energy from the everyday obligations to grow your business.
    …
    I can only try to come up with fancier ways of saying it but basically I am expert in getting busy women to implement their business ideas.
    I am expert in a method of personal organization and productivity that I created myself and I also have a signature method for my mastermind groups, this is how my clients implement their business ideas and grow month after month.

  98. Day 2 23-08-22

    – come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHY you want to be known as an expert and pick one or two that are most important to you;

    1. Because my mission is to connect people where they can be authentic and effective.
    2. That this is why I am on Earth to use this particular talent for the benefit of the community.
    3. That what I have to offer really works.
    4. That I am credible in this because it has worked for me and it can work for others.
    5. Because every customer so far has said, “What a shame I didn't do this sooner!”
    6. Because it really helps people to connect with themselves and with others, I grant this to as many others as possible.
    7. It makes the world a bit more beautiful.
    8. That it increases my visibility and awareness so that I can reach more people.
    9. That it gives me the freedom to be fully empowered.
    10. That I become an authority in developing authentic and effective behavior.
    11. That I have mastered coaching in authentic and effective behavior so well that I have already subconsciously become proficient in it.
    12. That as many leaders as possible have never gotten to know themselves as well as people and that they now know who they want to be.
    13. That all specialists who are going to lead get a completely new view on what it means to manage people.
    14. That it gives me so much energy to do every time.
    15. That I want to be a positive example as a person for others.
    16. That they learn to deal with the paradox that behavior says only 2 to 4 percent about your identity, but that others judge you 100 percent on your behavior.

    I am already living through and propagating everything that I have mentioned, but the message 13 comes out most strongly: That all specialists who are going to lead get a completely new view of what managing people means.

    As Nisandeh mentioned about virgins: "They don't have a clu." Just like most content specialists have no idea what they are getting into as soon as they are supposed to direct people. Their first inclination is to want to show it instead of guiding others. They cling to control because they have no idea how to influence the behavior of others. Behavior is like a black box that opens for them.

  99. WEEK 10, DAY 2 - Define WHAT
    Come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHAT you want to be known for as an expert and choose the one or two that are most important for you;

    1. develop self-insight
    2. conquer fear
    3. unlearn conditioned behavior
    4. develop self-confidence / become more assertive
    5. stress management
    6. career development
    7. learn to guard your limits and say no
    8. learn to make choices
    9. become a game changer
    10. shaping your life purpose
    11. strengthen your thinking power
    12. discover and activate your ambitions / wishes
    13. develop your creative ability
    14. meaning (zingeving): finding and living it
    15. strengthen personal qualities
    16. develop healthy ownership

    Considering these aspects:
    - serving people for decades vs/ fads,
    - don’t build an expertise that will shoot you in the leg
    - serve the SAME clients for 10 years or more
    - the difference between celebrity business and a scalable expert business…)

    … my choice is:
    10. shaping your life purpose
    15. strengthen your personal qualities

    >> I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace. <<

  100. Day 2: what to be known for as an expert (first 3 are the most important)
    I’m listing only options here that are currently viable (no options of what I could start to learn and develop into a business), which however doesn’t mean that I WANT all of this.
    1. “All of self-development in 1 integrative framework”
    2. “All of business / management in 1 integrative framework”
    3. “All of thinking in 1 integrative framework”
    4. “All of philosophy in 1 integrative framework”
    5. Cybernetics / systems theory
    6. Evolution as a general development theory
    7. Ultra-compact summaries of the most acclaimed business books
    8. Making quantitative or conceptual models
    9. Staying fit with limited efforts
    10. Management consulting

  101. This comment is for Sin whom, if I remember the date correctly, has her first pilot today for a new client. I believe the client had 3 cases.

    Love to hear more about how it went tomorrow SIN here or in the Conscious Entrepreneur session.

    I’ll do my assignment later today.

  102. Day 1 – come up with at least 10 answers for why do you want to become a/the known expert in your field and make a decision IF becoming that expert is what you want to go for;

    - increase added value to my clients, more understanding, better products, more trust
    - work with enthousiastic clients that are willing to pay more
    - attract right technical staff + be able to teach them unique product
    - make more money: charge more money + serve more clients + keep clients close and upsell (sell more in coming years)
    - get more out of niche-market (old houses)
    - create movement instead of selling solar panels solely
    - no need to negotiate prices
    - get more traction with suppliers, they want to help me more to increase (shared) succes as I sell their products
    - turning "solar panel business" into energy business (including consultancy and advice and including longterm service + installation new products)
    - business become easyer: people know already my story

    I am prepared to do the work: it takes at least 1 year of hard work. I am committed to become known as an expert in the energy business.

    1. Day 2 – come up with at least 10 specific ideas for WHAT you want to be known for as an expert and choose the one or two that are most important for you;
      - energy production
      - installation of solar systems
      - train the installer
      - make complex situations simple and easy to handle
      - improved savety and monitoring
      - more energy consiousness
      - less dependence on energy suppliers
      - roofwork/ working safely at hights
      - knowledge on building a company in solar
      - client advise
      - high quality installation/installations
      - teamwork

      Most important:
      - installation of solar systems
      - train the installer

      1. Day 3 – come up with a specific commitment for becoming a/the known expert/authority as you defined it yesterday.
        E.g. time investment, knowledge acquisition, skills practice, budget reserved or any other parameters you need to take into account to make it happen…;
        - In the coming 12 months I will develop the knowledge/skill for at least 2 new energy products, 1 storage of power, 1 storage of heat.
        - Also I will invest 3 hours per week to establish my position as an expert (by writing + publishing the relevant content)

      2. Is an online class something for you to set up to give more clarity about that it is not just done ios and there you show your expert position. and your added value.

        You can also ask money for it and people want tips. Why invest with you, there are many.

        If I know what and why you do it all.

    2. Why experts in the field of energy?

      There are many more answers in there that resonate. Which I often feel with you but don't hear and don't see on paper yet

      1. Tnx for your comments Leo.

        You are totally right I should get more clear on the WHY and why energy.. and get the insights on paper.

        Online class could be something interesting..

  103. WHY?
    Find your convincing WHY
    Why is it important for you to become a well-known authority/expert in your field/marketplace?
    Some ideas are in the video, but make your own list;
    1. because that means that I have made the choice in what I want to become an expert in;
    2. because that is something with which I want to make a lasting difference for the good for and with people;
    3. because that is only really possible if I am an expert, in other words distinctively good in my profession;
    4. because I like to be really good at one or a few things rather than everything;
    5. because I like to go in-depth and really understand and understand subjects;
    6. because then I create a truly pure legacy;
    7. because I contribute something to the earth, humanity instead of living and consuming alone;
    8. because then I attract clients who really want to practice, work, research, and really learn from what I'm providing;
    9. because it leads to sustainable and constructive cooperation and friendship with people;
    10. because it generates a sustainable income stream for me and perhaps for co-workers;
    11. because it generates a higher income stream;
    12. because it gives me the space to get better in my field;

  104. Day 1 – come up with at least 10 answers for why do you want to become a/the known expert in your field and make a decision IF becoming that expert is what you want to go for;

    1. I want to make a difference in peoples lives, ESPECIALLY parents and children
    2. I want to add value to their lives
    3. I don t like it when people have lots of stress
    4. I want to share my knowledge
    5. I long to educate people
    6. I can t help myself wanting to coach and train people to change for the better
    7. I am educated and experienced as coach and trainer
    8. I have gained selfconfidence by doing what I want train and coach.
    9. I have a desire to make a big difference for people
    10. I can help create more peace and love in people

    WHAT I will do to become an expert is taking committed actions to build my business. 😀

  105. I got my own answer. If I become the expert in helping teams to excel no matter where they work, it immediately makes sense for both.

    Ok so here we go.

    Week 10, day 1- 10 reasons WHY I want to be the expert
    1. Since I decided that my book was going to be called “handboek online vergaderen” I don’t have to explain anymore what I do. So 1: making very clear what I do.
    2. Making it easy for people to find ME iso the other way around
    3. Make it easy to find JV partners
    4. Everybody knows me
    5. I get publicity- the media will call me if they want to know something
    6. It caresses my ego (seriously. I wish it wouldn’t be but it is)
    7. It will force me to continue doing the same thing 🤪
    8. I once had a call with the belastingdienst. They wouldn’t hire me because I didn’t already have a contract. But once I would have a book, they would.
    9. Because I specialize I get more jobs in that area and I will become better and better in my field.
    10. I might be invited to come speak on someone else’s seminar/ convention etc making sure I influence more people and learn at the same time from others

    I found out a thing. I’m not very good in working my ASS off. Well. Not true. I’m very good at that, but in this period in my life it doesn’t have my priority.

    The good thing of being an expert is that I hopefully don’t have to work so hard anyMore and can pick the clients I really want.

    THAT is my compelling why. 🙈

  106. In making animations I do not feel I want to become an expert.
    I rather want people to choose for me, IF the like my style of drawing and animating.
    If they don't, then they go to someone else, that's fine.

    I would like to be seen as an artisist. Some like Kandinski, some don't. Some like Rembrand some don't. It's fine.
    The same goes for singers or musicians. If you are good, you will sell, but there will always be people who will not buy your nusic. No problem.

    So I guess I pass on becomming the/a expert

    1. Though I respect your decision Paul, I fear you are avoiding the issue.
      Making a decision is fine, but best done when first checking all the options and putting a question mark on what you already know,
      Why not first think of 10 reasons why you SHOULD become an expert and only after looking at them make the decision that is right for you.

      1. Thank you Vered for your answer!

        At first I thought: "No, you are wrong."
        But I contemplated for 5 minutes what you said and an AHA-moment happend!

        I still don't feel I want to be an expert in animation.
        But what I do see myself as, is as an expert in creative thinking/creativity/problemsolving/innovation/intelligence, something along those lines.

        This might be a big breakthrough!

        Why do I want to become an expert in creativity?

        - Because I have been thinking about this many times before.
        - Because I was a designer for a big TV show and I came up with several (according to others) brilliant Ideas.
        - A teacher at the Design Academy said that I was brilliant but that I didn't see it myself.
        - I developed the FORCE method (5 step plan to get good ideas) but never did anything with it.
        - I have about 10 books about creative thinking, but never realy read them. (But I would still like to)
        - I believe all people are born creative but we unlearn this in school. I want to reconnect people to thier authentic creative potetial
        - I think I would never get bored in learning and/or talking about creativity
        - I allready am a creative professional (and I believe that.)
        - Innovation is a field that will always be around and creativity is the most important skill for innovation.
        - If I could be anybody I would have liked to be Albert Einstein, I would love to study (and the learn to others) how he thought and how his thought-experiments worked.
        - I believe creativity is closely linked to lifeforce. Creativity brings happiness and aliveness in people. When I stop being creative I feel dead inside.
        - Creativity reconnect you to your inner child.
        - I made a colouringbook for kids with pictures where something is 'wrong' to spark their creative thinking. (sold about a 100 and stopped promoting it)
        - I feel energised thinking about this
        - It could be a new career path and I could let go of making animations
        - I could help hundreds or thousands of people, instead of 1 at the time, like with animations

        😀

        Thanks again.
        This is going to stear my life into a whole new direction.

        1. Hi Paul,

          What you write is great to read. I get very excited about it. Creativity is my dominant value. Creativity inspires, changes and connects.

          It seems that you are now connecting with yourself to the maximum by fully embracing your talent in creativity. Now your journey begins to use your greatest talent for people who appreciate it to the fullest. Good luck man, great what a hurricane of energy this will unleash in you. WOW !!!

        2. That's brilliant Paul! and great to see how courageous and honest you were with yourself to be willing to examine your initial decision.
          This is the power of the Idea Generator... it leads us to unexpected results and it would have been a pity you would miss it..

          Thank YOU!

  107. day 1
    I am the expert in the two-wheeler industry.
    Why do I want to be an expert.

    1. Work less and earn less.
    2. Can I ask for more money
    3. Better Customers
    4. Publicity
    5. Prefer to be helped by an expert than an assistant.
    6. Rather the mentor than the coach
    7. I did it myself.
    8. I experienced it myself
    9. I embodied it myself
    10. Expert experience. I feel the importance of the 7.8.9 to pass this on. I know that's why I'm here.
    11. I'm in the right place. I have what I've been through to be an expert.
    12. I'm an expert and I act like an expert.
    13. I can now be paid for the value I deliver. Not for an hour bill.
    14. I do what I like.
    15 I do what I'm good at.
    16. Live by the values ​​that are important to me.
    17. Get the podium. My network is asked to promote a product or write to an ambassador for a trade fair.
    18. Asked for my opinion, I matter. (gives confidence)
    19. Inspiring people (very important to me)
    20. I can achieve more impact.
    21. Gives me easier access to people I need or those who need me.

      1. Thank yoe. NR. 1 means something to me. Commit to why I'm here.

        I have things to experience and embody and pass them on.

        I've got enough on my pad, which is all learning material. Earning comes naturally when I start doing what I'm here for.

        When I'm grateful.

        If I follow my heart

        and lles kennsi that I have gained now really going to do instead of fun experiences and looking for even more warnings and challenges.

  108. Ha. This is immediately interesting. Because what I would LOVE to be, is the expert on helping teams grow to be mutually and personally responsible, working together to get things done, be productive but also honest, purposeful, and connected, no matter where they work.

    What I am working on now, is becoming an expert on online meetings and working remotely. However- I don’t think it’s a bad thing- it’s what my client wants. And besides that it’s very clear.

    Is this the right thing to do?

  109. I'm the expert in mobility assessments for retailers and high truck volume related building permits.

    I want other people, more specificly my inner circle to start with, to know that I am also THE expert in

    A) traffic related data, in turning that data into bankable assets AND

    B) THE specialist for retailers, DC's and local government in turning parking lots into a money machine while helping out the climat and the local population. I want to set the norm here, and I don't give a f* any more about what others outside my circle of trust say or do to dishonor me because it hurts their unethical business model.

    (Woepha, it seems I feel strongly about that last bit 😀)

    The commitment test is easy: will I have made a video invitation to a client day where I talk about these things by the end of the week - or not? If not, it is only talking and no action. Bit nervous to do that, but hey, if they don't know, it's not going to happen anyway.

    The plan is simple: i host a masterclass on 4 topics. That forces me to speak, show, listen. And I get known for this new specialism. I also say what I expect from my clients in spreading the word and bringing in referrals for the second run of those masterclasses.

    Where needed, I will also be forced to do my homework on technical details or partnerships/software or come up with a signature system.

    I'm going to stick to one goal this week, "being seen as an expert by my inner circle via a masterclass and its followup". That seems like enough work and self surpassing action for one week. 😀

  110. WEEK 10, DAY 1
    Come up with at least 10 answers for why do you want to become a/the known expert in your field and make a decision IF becoming that expert is what you want to go for;

    1. better customers
    2. higher rates
    3. more publicity
    4. lucrative offers
    5. business partners
    6. people come to me
    7. I can do what I'm good at
    8. I can do what I like
    9. I can help more people
    10. I can make someone else make money by working for me
    11. I can choose where and how much I work
    12. I can choose my customers myself
    13. I myself grow as a person
    14. I grow as a professional
    15. I will then have an impact on a larger scale and for decades to come
    16. (my) knowledge, value and impact are multiplied to the x power by others acting on it (olievlek)
    17. financial freedom
    18. lots of fun
    19. live according to my values
    20. fulfillment life mission (zingeving): I do what I am meant to do

    Decision: I want to go for becoming the known expert.

    I am going to become THE expert in my marketplace.

  111. DAY 1 Reasons WHY to become an authority/expert
    1. To be invited (and paid) to speak
    2. To get new clients through referrals
    3. To be interviewed by the media
    4. To get better customers
    5. To get more customers
    6. To sell online courses
    7. To sell more books
    8. To get quoted and tagged on social media
    9. To quit my corporate job
    10. To fill in live events

  112. Why do I want to become an expert?

    This strongly connects to why I want to be an entrepreneur 🙂

    (1) There are just too many people out there who have brilliant ideas and the potential to help many people. And they are struggling to even choose what to do. As an expert I can help so many more people to create their better tomorrow. And through that create a better tomorrow for all of us.

    (2) And another reason (that you mention in the video) is that I will be able to attract clients who are willing to work. It is so much more fun to work with the clients that are going for it. I want that all the time.

    (3) As an expert I can focus on the value I deliver, instead of the organisation part around it.

    (4) As an expert it will be immediately clear what I do and who I help. (Also this will make it really easy for my parents to explain what I do)

    (5) As an expert I will be able to distinguish myself from my peers and even inspire them to make the next step for themselves.

    (6) As an expert I can set my prices instead of it being a negotation. And I can set my working times.

    (7) As an expert I can focus on the extra cool activities, such as week long trainings or working 1 on 1 with people that inspire me.

    (8) As an expert, I can get access to materials I cannot easily get access to as just somebody (pretty sure I can assist/support/audit certain trainings I would otherwise have to put down a lot of money for)

    (9) As an expert, I will attract people to work with me.

    (10) As an expert, I can have a bigger impact.

    1. Hey Max, loved your list man! Good stuff there ...

      Something to consider though. You start your post with "why i want to become an expert". Would it change something in your energy if you had written "why I unappologeticly claim being an expert in my field from now on:...."?

  113. Week10

    Day 1 – come up with at least 10 answers for why do you want to become a/the known expert in your field and make a decision IF becoming that expert is what you want to go for;

    To do this the American way:

    I don’t need to become the expert I am already the expert in my field.

    10 reason why

    I have a waiting list
    I can select my clients
    I can talk about spirituality with the CEO ‘s whom I mentor.
    I can ask a hourly rate that I want and I think my time is worth.
    Because I am living my purpose.
    I am of serves to my clients.
    Because of my work I leave the world in a better state than before.
    I can be altruistic
    It puts me in a position that I learn every day.
    That I can live from out empathy.
    I can share the knowledge that has been past on to me.

    1. Hourly rates signal not an expert imo. Something to observe: the experts you consult, do they charge per hour or per case, consultation, delivery,... regardles how long it takes them? Who do you see more as an expert: the car repairman who charges per hour or the one per check-up? Why is that?

      1. Ok, that might have been to cryptic whaha!

        Think doctors, repair specialist, your favorite restaurant, a builder, a dentist, a seller of garden equiptment, your grocery store, your tax specialist, your lawyer, etc etc etc.

        Imagine you bought pizza per minute. Or a doctors appointment per 10 minutes. See what I imply? Would make for a bad business model, wouldn't it?

        The key is to charge a % of the value or profit you bring, if possible tied into ROI. That alone will say "expert".

  114. Why I want to be known as an expert in human-horse interaction



    1. I have a huge passion for horses and I see so much frustration in the horse world! Horses are punished because there is no trust, have experiences bad handling in the past and/or miscommunication. I want to create a better world for horses, where trust, communication and connection are the basis for everything, but I can not help all horses myself. If I educate more people how to interact and communicate with horses, I help more horses. If I’m know as the expert in this field, more people will listen to me and follow my advice, thus more horses will get a better life. At the same time people will experience more joy with their horses.


    2. I get invited to other countries to teach clinics. I love traveling and interacting with other cultures and I love bringing what I do to other countries where they often only have ‘cowboy style’ horse training. I have been to 13 countries so far but I have not been traveling for the past 3 years.



    3. I can fill my retreats easier. People will come to my retreats from all over the world because they WANT to work with me and my educated horses. I don’t have to ask Nisandeh how to fill my upcoming retreat.



    4. When I’m an expert, people will actually IMPLEMENT what I’m teaching because they believe what I’m teaching. As they will get the results (amazing relationship with their horse and getting their horse healthy and balanced) they will share it and refer people to my courses.



    5. My life will become so much easier, as I don’t have to do big launches, spend money on FB ads etc because people will come to me from referrals and because I’m the expert.



    6. There won’t we any complaints when I raise my prices. People will happily pay for my knowledge, so I will make more money.



    7. When I’m writing my book, it will be sold very easily, because people want to read what I have to say. Next to my expertise, the book will be known for it's amazing illustrations from a known artist (thank you Maria Daniels).



    8. I will be invited for podcasts (I want to be invited to Warwick Schillers podcast, he is known as THE expert in this field)

    9. I can hire an assistant who will handle all the requests so I can focus on the content.



    10. I will not be afraid to express MY opinion, even if it is different from what is commonly believed in the horse world. Some people think I’m too ‘spiritual’ and not down to earth to work with horses as I talk about breathing, energy, heart coherence etc. (thank you Sin Declerc).

    1. Lucie, if you would sound like all others, the current situation just continues for the horses. Being "the other voice" is key. It always has been. You know this. The horses depend on you being you, ruffing some feathers if needed...

      Btw, going to places and do retreats there, would that help to fill them? Who are partners abroad that benefit from hiring an expery like you to talk to and work with their clients/partners/... - and why? Would a stoeterij or other high level partner need high ticket 1:1 help, so you can make it affordable for lower ticket group participants? How does your and their why come together? And where exactly is that, geographicly? You clearly are an expert. How would an expert in your field act? What would they do? And are you willing, in real reality, to do what it takes to be such an expert? Even if? What is your gut telling you?
      Cheers!

      1. Thank you Sin!
        I did 2 retreats in France and Spain, but then I was invited and everything (accommodation, horses, food etc) was arranged. This is the first time I'm doing everything myself in NL and with my horses so I put the price a bit higher 😊. Thanks for your input!

      1. Thanks for your comment!
        No I havent't contacted Warwick yet. Many horse people want to be in his podcast, so I want to come up with something to WOW him!
        Maybe after the WOMB I will...

        1. Use de idea generator and then WOW Warwick. Why wait? You know already what you have to give. This a great reason to to distinguish you. Dare to stand out with your expert vision. Do not give up and you will see a strong message to present yourself with or without a podcast.

  115. day 1: WHY
    I am/want to become THE expert in transformative mediation & conflictresolution
    - I want to scale my online business
    - bigger impact in the world
    - stop playing small
    - I'm ment for more
    - I feel it as an obligation to walk this path, in the right way (a calling)
    - grow and develop myself
    - reach for the stars
    - I want to make movies with impact
    - opening new doors
    - speaking opportunities
    - dare to shine
    - fulfillment
    - making more difference in different ways

  116. Day 1 22-08-22

    – think of at least 10 answers why you want to become a/the well-known expert in your field and make a decision IF you want to become that expert, that is what you want to go for;

    1. Job satisfaction increases in the workplace.
    2. People work better together.
    3. Leaders have more influence on the productivity of their employees.
    4. Leaders understand their employees better.
    5. Employees really feel seen by their supervisors.
    6. Employees become more loyal to their supervisors.
    7. A better work culture is created within the organization.
    8. Ineffective systems are exposed and stopped.
    9. More job satisfaction also improves their quality of life and makes them feel happier.
    10. Less sick leave.
    11. The personal bonuses for executives are disappearing.
    12. The number of better leaders is increasing.
    13. Fewer employee burnouts.
    14. Connectivity within organizations is increasing.
    15. Leaders act less from power and become more and more of an authority.
    16. Employees become more assertive and stay in touch with their managers.
    17. Team spirit outweighs individual interest.
    18. In the workplace, authentic behavior increases and ego behavior decreases, such as cocky behavior and selfish behavior.
    19. There is more appreciation for each other in the workplace.
    20. Because managers and employees are developing more and more, organizations grow through a more sustainable and positive image.
    21. The quality of leadership increases by being able to connect better with employees.
    22. The quality of leadership increases by acting more strategically.
    23. The quality of management increases by controlling fewer employees.
    24 The quality of leadership increases through better insights into their own and others' behaviour.
    25. Managers and employees become more empowered.
    26. Creativity increases in the workplace.
    27. Managers and employees are going to work smarter.
    28. Employees know better which positions suit them.
    29. Tolerance increases, but also addressing behavior increases.
    30. Managers and employees learn to give better feedback to each other.

    I will be the specialist for specialists who have never led before and are promoted to a manager and are now struggling with leadership.

  117. Day 1: Why become an expert (and yes, I decide to go for that)
    1. Because it can make selling my expert products easier
    2. Because it can make getting great market feedback (reviews, ratings, NPS, etc) easier
    3. Because it can make getting attention easier
    4. Because it can help open doors that were otherwise closed
    5. Because all the previous points can help creating leverage to other markets
    6. Because it can lead to a self-selecting market revolving around you (your type of content, your style, your way of processing/delivering content, etc)
    7. Because it contributes to feeling appreciated
    8. Because it contributes to a feeling of fulfillment (meaningful contribution)
    9. Because it contributes to a feeling of pride
    10. Because it helps in getting into a self-reinforcing loop of developing stuff, selling it, being appraised for it, and so on

  118. Why become the expert in this next level thing? Because I want more ME in the company, because of growth goals, because the masks of my competitors fell bigtime ( burned ground thinking activated since that unfortuned event), because I want to have decent positive impact, i love achalleng and so do they, I want to stop the social bloodbath that is at hand via my inner circle while making money and inspire local government to do the same. Yup, those are the big ones for my inner circle. For the outer system, i do NOT want to be the expert any more. I do want them to trust the system I will provide to replace me.

    Got a second ideal client who wants to buy based on the idea, and open important doors - and warned me for the wolfs. I must still seem naive in the white guys heads whahaha. After that talk, i felt like a bad supplier, given how they go the extra marathon to help me make this a succes. That is their ticket to my inner circle, even if they don't yet know it. You do attract who you are.

    1. If you can find the arrogance inside yourself to know you are an expert, you will radiate it and attract. It isn't a thinking act. It is a gut based and allowed feeling close to arrogance. The zone of no fear and 100% trust in you capabilities.

      It is giving your 100%.

      Hope it helps!

      1. Thank you Sin, I have added this to my list. Not being afraid to express MY opinion, even if it is not common in the horse world.

  119. Week 10 - 1 of 5 Why be expert?

    1. Making a Bigger difference in the world
    2. Making more money because people come to me
    3. Getting better ideal clients
    4. Getting more publicity because I do have an opinion
    5. Getting business opportunities
    6. Getting more ideal clients
    7. Serve other people better by creating and delivering information that improve there lives
    8. Getting paid for something I love, talk and do anyway (talented and passioned about)
    9. Getting paid for my value, not for my time. so that I can be more present at home for my wife and kids.
    10. Leave a bigger legacy (borrowed from Jeroen, true that this is also a big motivator to me).

    Decision:
    I will be the expert in conscious public leadership for (local) government officials.

  120. Day 1

    Why

    1. To get more clients
    2. To get better clients
    3. To charge better prices
    4. To reach/educate more people
    5. To grow my business
    6. To work more independent of time and location
    7. To make more of a lifestyle business
    8. To get invited abroad
    9. To get sponsor deals
    10. To leave a bigger legacy

    Decision:
    I will be the expert in online wine education

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